Confession #803

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Am married for 1 year 2 months. i work in a far city away from my Hubby …he has been cheating with close to 4 ladies now,he apologizes when confronted ,recently we had a disagreement as I was told by the doc not to do heavy work like washing clothes n carrying heavy things, i told him which he said he can never wash another mans daughters clothes (my daughter who is not his) n ordered me to take her back home which I did but I really talked harshly (he doesn’t pay her fees feed her or anything) I pay all the bills as he is jobless ever since we got married,,,so after the argument he reported me to my brothers n his siblings that am disrespectful to him coz I have money, amesahau the cheating…i planned a prank with a friend who pretended to be my boyfriend to visit then I left the phone intentionally akasoma chats …now he says he cant live with mhanyaji n reported me again to my bro…we are yet to meet with my bro

June 12, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

How comes you say he is Jobless while his d**k has full time employment. 4 women is alot of work. The moment a man hates your kid GAME OVER.. you can’t love my money and hate my kid. You either hate both or love both.

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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Wait a minute ,unamlisha yet he is cheating on you and your still together???Is this something to give you a headache the moment he showed he doesn’t want your daughter that was a final straw never let a man come between you and your kids or put you in asituation where you have to choose …the guts of the man🙄🙄🙄he is jobless but his d**k is working full-time

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2021-01-13 21:31:35

I’m surprised, all along it has not been easy for an employed woman to Live with unemployed man, reason being that the man will always feel insecure and disrespected because he himself normally feels less a man.

On the other hand, women tend to mishandle their unemployed men because they naturally believe that men should be the provider. Once a man fails on that part, issue must crop and eventually misunderstandings.

Back to your case.

You made a mistake by faking another relationship affair beside your jobless man who by now is psychologically disturbed.

I don’t want to talk too much, i know men very well and i understand women too.

At the moment, your trust between both of you is gone, and once trust is broken, it’s like virginity, it can’t be recovered.

Just leave that man, go try your business elsewhere.

Let him choose one of the four ladies and move on.

My motto is always like this :

Worship God, don’t worship human beings.

I wish you good luck as you plan to move out

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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Allow me to call you stupid! Just stand in front of a mirror n repeat after me. ..stupid! Stupid! Stupid
In women’s conference we said. .”if he can’t accept ua kids as his own, take big big steps. “

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2021-01-13 21:31:35

We big problem my dia you have your daughter , if you do everything for her wat is the need of man ,mtu akikuoenda akupende pamoja n shida zako zote , this man is making full of you juu ya you brother anamsikiza Sana , my advice to you n Go and see your both parents and let each other talk n kuelewana juu kwa sahii waonekana we mbaya n yet kunasolution n Tena we are n era ya magonjwa waeza letewa magojwa yasio n tiba yakuue bure kiss n maana upendo tafuta mfanyikazi wakukulindia mtoto n wakufanya kazi ya nyumba n uwanze maisha yako if possible juu utafanya your daughter apate depression

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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Sasa wewe Dada Kwanini ung’ang’anie mtu ambaye hakujali hebu jipende wewe na mwanao bhana, mtu mwenyewe hana hata kazi ya maana, kazi kuning’iniza mapumb— kama utumbo buchani hebu kamchukue mwanao mpe mapenzi ya mama achana na mtu asiye jitambua

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

First you live with a man who hate your child, you care for everything, mapenzi gani hayo mtu anakupenda na anachukia mtoto wako,so hakupendi anapenda Mali yako

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2021-01-13 21:31:35

How can u send your daughter to shags yet u the one sorting out all the bills my dear??? So u rather foot your man’s bills than your own daughter’s??

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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Infact you are living with a fellow woman. Which kind of man keeps reporting issues to his whole clan. Pitty sucker

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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Infidelity is a deal breaker, even the bible okays it. Am amazed you’re still in the marriage even after all the disrespect and to add salt to injury you are the sole bread weaner and he has the nerve to report you. Smh…

He should have done the wise thing and talked things through with you. What kind of man runs to his relatives to report his own wife?

Am sorry but your hubby is immature. Plus he doesn’t accept your daughter, i can imagine how painful it is.

Best ❤

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