Confession #529

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Am married to a kikuyu lady, 8 years now. We have 2 kids now a boy and the girl but she always demeaning me whenever she come to my working place (quarry) ameshinda akiniita mkale(kalenjin) mbele ya watu wengi since yeye mkikuyu,Alipewa 50k kutoka kwao kuanzisha biashara na sai ananunua maharagwe na sai biashara imekomaa,I tried to warn her against vulgar language and she promised to divorce ,She is talking about me everywhere that she is sheltering me out of poverty
Last month shifted to live neighbouring market with my kids without my permission ,my family urge me not to follow her again,lakini still napenda watoto wangu.

May 11, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Stop comparing everything with the current situation we are in our state,His ex Uhuru and Hon.William Ruto,those are politics n fight for power,
Politics is a dirty game and they will be friends,
My bro be advised but make your own decision

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

I have viewed most post and you guys are against our tribe,what you dont know is both men and women in our tribe their aim single or married is to prosper for a beter future and we dont care the source of wealth where will come from.so if you marry one of our lady be ready she will change or destroy you if you determine in your future and how you are investing.but still us men we dont telorate nonesense, even if i marry a lady from another tribe if you are employed i will do all i can plan a business for you and not to stay at home watching tv and enjoying yourself and if you fail that busines it will be another story.so in short you must be ”hardworking” both men and women from your tribes if not stay away and marry your tribes

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Me Grace mama Brian I really hate tribal marriages and I wonder how people engage in it tribal marriages are never peaceful even if the two of u pretend to love each other the family members won’t and remember good relationship with family members is very important in marriages !

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

The problem is not that she’s a kikuyu or you are a kalejin cz you are not the first one to marry a kikuyu girl.look for the problem cz majority of the kikuyu believes in hard-working so if you are a lazy bone my friend mkikuyu hatakulea na akulelee watoto forget it

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

I skipped please be proud of your roots. Walk shoulders high, being a kalenjin is an asset, having had your kinsman as the longest serving president. I have never seen my husband pissed of when I refer to him as my #Bukusudarling, because the blood of the Bukusu run in his veins neither do I desire to have him on board as a kikuyu. Self love and appreciation is key so that later you may spread your wings and share that love with others.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

My advise to you young man is please gt out of your comfort zone, start dreaming big, in short be ambitious, issue about tribe is just a mere propaganda but if you chose to work on that trust me there are so many good kalenjins from whom you can get a loving wife. Two kikuyu culture is materiacal(sp) our babies belongs to us women, but this should not worry you, a new wife looking at it positively is capable of giving as many kids as possible. Never allow yourself kukanyangwa na kupakwa matope in the name of being married or getting your baby .this will negatively affect yourself esteem which to recover will take you ages.can you concentrate on achieving your ambitions and the love of your life will locate you? Or will u settle for hide, run n chase which u might never win?

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

For us to give justice we must hear from both sides! This is one sided story we can’t blame a lady .24 is still very young no enough life experience hence couldn’t make wise and mature life decisions . Marry a mature lady as from 26-30 and as man you should be prepared to handle your responsibilities both as a husband and as a father to your children. Unaoa dem mkikuyu na ilhali hujiwezi kifedha, unataka muwe mnakula nini! Mawe?

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Hata wewe you called her kikuyu, you need communication with her take her for a date and you tell her how you feel when she calls you name don’t run to your family before letting her know how you feel,Aki 8years is so long to let it go just like that 😭 hata wewe uko na shida kwann akam job and you are living together in the same room 🤔why call you names and she is not mad?

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Wewe next ni septic tank,, anza mapema,,,1st I wanna tell u for free,,she doesn’t love the kids,,,she’s holding them for to provoke her of taking them so that she ends up in court,,and find away of getting hold of ur little cash as kids up while with them,,, they say out of sight out of mind,,,plan maturely if at all ur in need of ur kids and her,,,and be ready for the battle coz the law allows her to be with them till 18yr,,as u support them,,prepare urself

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Pole bro, I don’t know why these people think their tribe is special than other people’s tribes

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Call upon God ND everything will b okay in real marriage situation one is forced tew apologize even thou u haven’t wrong brathee cx unacheki c Kila mtu hupenda kuona a happy family so relax, pray ND u will b answered

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Its painful bro,the lady is heartless and have no wisdom in her,its not about being a Kikuyu remember but its about her character and how she was raised, live her to go and do what she want away as she never knows the blessings God have set for you! Pray hard and wait for God’s time,don’t rush to get married again but build yourself first.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

That Wife Who Demeans Her Husband Infrnt Of Everyone Is Nt Worth Sacrificing Ua Life 4,let Her Be N One Day She Will Regret It N Come Back To Apologize,silence Is The Best Medicine Utaonekana Kama Mjinga Bt U Know Wot U Are Doing All The Best

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

And those ladies saying oooh she did that coz she is a kiuk,do we know what conspired btwn the 2 and again ukiona mama ameomba pesa kwao na atoke kwake,,,plus living with the in-laws sometimes can b very hard,, so angekaa tu hapo ndio wauane ndo u cone here yapping

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Sometimes people advise others wrongly,especially those who are talking trash I know most are not married that why you view marriage as a bed of roses,
Marriage has challenges n removing from one marriage n starting another is not easy my friends,my brother try n cool down n give her time

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

You’re tribalism and Lazy man too, how can you concentrate on 50k only you could have worked hard and earn more, feed yourself and kids and wife in terms of need not thinking about been called Kikuyu or kalenjin is only an empty mind can concentrate on that,women do quarrel and no perfect lady or man reason been you know less about her life you too she’s does so,the main business is to focus on contributions and building one another

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

She’s made up her mind.in most cases,it’s really difficult to do a marriage btwn pple from two different tribes especially kyuks n kales.my advyc to u is plz go for the kids,take them to ua mum if she’s still thea thn continue hustling in favour of us kiddoz

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Marriage is not abt tribe u are just on the wrong hands.. Anf for you who are accusing her of marrying a kyuk wash your faces cz sm of you sura ni personal lazy baboons

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

50k is just little money you can concentrate with your life earn twice that amount, open a bigger business than hers and start the war but if you start the war empty handed you will end up losing

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

You will know how much you wasted yourself too late, take advantage of raising your standards even vacate to another place, vile utakuta mwanamme mwingine wa mtumba akimkula ndo utajua hujui. Open your inner eyes now

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Die on your own plz ukizidi Sana steal wool itawekwa mpangoni you will die a peaceful death. Am still wondering what made you marry a Kikuyu while you knew you are poor pambana na hali yako

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

Tunza yeye powa, atakuheshimu.. Not all kikuyu ladies r bad, it depends on someone’s character,, Kikuyu ladies especially those wife material, r expsnve.. If u can’t provide enough for her, they find means ov making the life better.. But despite all u deserve respect bng a patriarch of the house.. Marriage is not abt tribe but how u treat each other, if u see it not working just quit peacefully..

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:22

I have never even had sex with a kyuk( I adore Anne Waiguru’s looks,but not her thievery,hehe) but I would love to have a baby with one and help her raise the baby. I won’t marry one tho maana nasikia they are complicated and a guy like me can’t handle all that. I want an easy going lady.

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