Confession #835

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Am super stressed now. My husband of 7 years now has refused to leave his side chicks and now I don’t have energy to even do anything for him have talked to him but now he has refused to change
If I want to do anything like ata kufua Sina nguvu I wake up early kumpigia pasi nashindwa
Am tired I feel exhausted
I can’t talk to anyone

June 21, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

You are already doing it,use reverse psychology my dear don’t sleep get up do your own,bath,wear nicely,look good,go out have fun ata Kama ni kutembea kwa park na kukula ice cream,have a good relationship with your kids my sister you will have made it

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Go on your knees dear..your father in heaven will fight this battle for u…pekeako huezi dear…

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

wewe wacha za ovyo. kwani mlizaliwa pamoja akweree uko. jipe sunguli ngoja abandilike after kuku ikikojoa.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Hizi comments aty zaniuma aty mnamshw acheki penye amekosea ??? I think some men’s ata ufanye nni lazma watakublame
Ndo bibi watu waxema bibi ndo mbaya .mum talk to him again akikata make ur own decision

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Chunga usife bure na stress dada na utamwacha akila na akinywa,,niliyapitia ,,nimachungu but maombi usaidia sana,,

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

But you’re are the best to him not side chick. U need to Ctrl yourself, retreat, focus. Then you will come up with a strategy to win him fully from the so called side chick.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

You know your man better and nothing can scare you to bring him back. I mean this, do you remember when you first met? Set the pace darling. Men will never go for any gold digger you should on a test for a relationship. Be that woman courageous and smart to retire with him. That’s why you’re in that house and not the so called”side chick” you were once that side thing but you might have stood the test why not now!!!!!hmmmmmm!!!! Go for your man and love him more. Assume the chicks and be the chicken..Am laughing at you darling… he’s yours…add mwakenya and call him your babe

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Give yourself a break,he doesn’t need to know,pumzika hao wengine wamfanyie kile ulikuwa unamfanyia…….our bodies need to breath, and when the environment isn’t conducive then its your duty to create one yourself……..

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

I Know how it hurts,but my advice is,just vumilia,with time ataacha,but don’t force him,you will thank me later.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Examine uaself first…ndo ujue mbona ako na sidechicks…men normally look for com4t n peace in those sidechicks, from a nagging wife

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Never and i repeat NEVER FORCE love.. Where their is no love their is no life move out of that toxic relationship mama

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Change of behaviour or habits is never sudden but gradual. You may be wearing yourself out over something that your hubby is working.
It’s good that you’ve talked to him about it, now live to believe that he’s listened to you. What you are doing to yourself may do more harm than good.
Let’s project a future whereby your hubby has gotten rid of the bad habit and there you are a victim of a mental disorder. What’s so good about that?
I understand what you are feeling but take it on a light note. This is a man that you married not a man that you own or possess. Anything could happen to him anytime including death. What would that leave you like?
You have a life to live, responsibilities to meet, dreams to achieve and visions to live upto. Work on yourself more than think of his misconduct.
Be wise and use relevant protection while making love to him. Don’t push him far away but do your best to win him to yourself. Maintain your wife values as you believe God for good results and all

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Mwodokee kwanza or utakufa bure uwache watoi wanalewa na side chick

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Try to talk by both side of your parents, ikishindikana then mami kanyaga frame uende zako kabla hajakuletea magonjwa kwa nyumba

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Why don’t you love your self first my dea…
If you are capable just give him a room for you to get a good breath..
Kama uko na watoto kindly look at them and leave the rest..
Treat yourself well mammie.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Get answers to this questions first.
1. When did he start seeing this other woman(flashback exact time).
2. What was different during that time?
3. What is the push behind that relationship.
4. How long is that relationship?
5. How did you know about it? is it through him, if yes what was his intentions.
Finally, when a man retain one side chick
1.it’s either he loves that woman.
2. He finds peace of mind there, that other woman could be the opposite of you
My advice.
Don’t kill yourself.
Know you competition, do a SWOT analysis, then repackage yourself then things will fall in place.
Thank me later.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

After this pandemic is over all sidechicks should remain in rockdown

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Love yourself, take care of yourself and don’t let blood pressure ikushike juu ya mwanaume

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Just leave, and before hen tell the ids you are planning to call it quit, and explain the predicament in a language they can understand

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Why get stressed out let ur heart have peace rem a woman sets and put her house in order.Don’t let the side chick win in ur thoughts.He chose u for a reason take that as a lesson and move on.Let ur marriage shine again

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

I used to treat my man like aking but wen I found out he was exchanging women out there,I stopped doing things for him.let his women take gud care of him.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Ukijkufa sahii that lady will take over n life will continue. Jipende mamii.Assume everything n ishi life yako.Make urself busy.Vaa smart.Go meet your friends outside there.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Try to think where you mess him up, then come down. Don’t argue with him in anything he tries to bring up. Fahali wawili hawaishi zizi moja. He is a man, you are a woman. Treat him the way he wants and do your best in keeping him happy, surely he will change

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

It is better to end something and start another than to imprison yourself in hoping for the impossible.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:35

Don’t be tired continue telling him the reality, he might kill u ,who will raise your children, you love him that’s why you can’t feel ashamed in telling him the reality my dear if he continues just tell him you are moving out you don’t want to die because of him

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