Confession #3994

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I am so stressed out because of my mother.Since we were young my mum had the habit of hoping from one husband to another,I was lucky enough to have endured all that by living with different well wishers. I have managed to study upto university by paying fees through so much stress and Helb loan. In short we’ve never had a permanent place we can call a home. I graduated in 2019 but in 2016 she got married somewhere and left her 3 boys there with that husband and lied she is going to look for a job. I didn’t know the place but I tried to trace them and found them. To be sincere that place is so dry but recently one of the boys finished primary school and because I’m not permanently employed I could only afford to take him to a day school . The home is so demanding because the man is not in a good job ,he was working as a night watchman in a nearby market and recently quit the job due to health issues.When i say demanding it means food and water is all under me and mark u we have a elder sister who cares about no one. Even in my all high school life to university she never even gave me a coin. I tried talking to mum so that she can assist but she never, even if someone falls sick she won’t visit them. So i talked to my sister to ease the burden on my side by taking one of the boys so that I can remain with the 2 but she refused. I just don’t know what to do.This is just too much on me .Where I work the pay is below 20k.

May 9, 2023 |
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2023-05-09 16:44:39

As in you're looking after sons of your mother and her man! Oh dear.

What happened to kila mtu abebe mzigo wake?

Anonymous
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2023-05-09 14:56:09

You definitely have a big problem..the biggest one infact which is YOU
Can you stop blaming people for your woes and focus on making your life better?
As for the boys just do what you can …staaap saying what others can do
God knows you.

Anonymous
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2023-05-09 14:56:08

You definitely have a big problem..the biggest one infact which is YOU
Can you stop blaming people for your woes and focus on making your life better?
As for the boys just do what you can …staaap saying what others can do
God knows you.

Anonymous
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2023-05-09 14:55:46

You are a good son and this is life. You will not loose it, you will find a way. God cannot give you such as your back cannot carry. This far he has seen you through, don't give up, He is still God. The God who gave you a degree, will give you a better job, a family, wisdom all that you need to make it. You need God. Get to know God. He has a huge call on your life

Anonymous
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2023-05-09 14:55:28

As hard as it is you can only light another's candle when yours is lit. Do what you can. Beyond that you risk putting off your candle.

In the Bible, those who didn't share their oil were actually called wise. Help them even as you stabilize financially so that you can sustain it long term. Otherwise you run the risk of all of you being in financial doldrums with no one to help the other.

Anonymous
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2023-05-09 14:54:55

First of all your sister owes you nothing….

She is also struggling with her life, so whether she gave you a coin or not is not sthg to make you upset

You choosing to take care of your brothers is out of your own good heart and will

Anonymous
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2023-05-09 14:54:28

It's higher time we tell you the bitter truth, you can only help someone from your abundance and not from your source, this is the only time you have to build yourself, otherwise you may end up being broke and bitter with life.

Another thing, those kids aren't your responsibility, they are your parents responsibility and I tell you again protect your twenties with alot of jealous.

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2023-05-09 14:53:52

Don't loose it dear where you have come from is far than where you are headed to.As long as you are getting food, clothing and medication when sick for yourself and your brothers it's fine just be patient and appreciate every small step and in 5years those boys will be a bit independent and it will be all joy

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