Confession #678

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I got pregnant for him but alinionyesha every kind of madharau he used to bring lady’s Kwa nyumba when am not around… When I was 7 months pregnant alinipea transport niende kwetu now niko na mtoi wa 4 months anataka ni rudi kwake hadi ananipea simu niongee na mamake they are even insisting kukuja after Corona.

May 28, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

I won’t tell you to go back or not to go back coz the decision is basically yours to make but just ask yourself this question, what makes you think that he won’t start doing the same things he used to do ?what makes you think that he’s changed ?
What makes you confused ?
Ni akili hautumii ama ni nini huna ?

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

I once passed thru the same issue I have avry painful experience don’t go back the same people who want u back were there when u were told to leave n they want u back.pls I passed the same issue but after ashort tym in marriage there were the same people who told me to leave I assumed but nothing changed after 27yrs I left the marriage .they only want to use u n the guy who u call if will give u more than one kid b4 ur told to leave

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

I cannot stand men who put their pregnant wives through such. It does not matter what she did or didn’t do that is a very delicate time.

I wouldn’t go back. No way no how. Na-ah.

And if you want to have a sit down, talk to yOur parents and tell them that he should show how sorry he is by giving you time to think on it and he should be supporting you and baby fully while you are at your parent’s place. Usiitikie kurudi. You must put him to the test.

Hapo ndio utaona his true intentions.

Btw, has he been offering any financial support ama ni kelele tu?

This post has really pained me 😠😠😭😭😭 💔. 🙆🙆

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

How now l, ladies let’s show these men that we aren’t desperate,that they can treat us wherever they feel like, whether you love him or not achana naye ,am sure Better men are out there,if someone wasn’t there for u when you needed him most akuonyeshe mgongo pliz, Never think that UA child will not have a father,a father is someone who raises up a child protects n loves not one who fathers

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Forgiveness is very important in marriage ..forgive mutumia mugi nigwaka akaga nyumba yake na moko meri ..no mutumia kirimu nigitharia atharagia nyumba yaka my ..my dea go respect your husband take care for him na nyumba yako itasimama.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

which is which now u perfectly know that he is a cheater but u r willing to sucrifice your happiness na uvumilie kwa iyo marriage..what is that waking up to sorrows everyday?wake up gal..there are good men out there…who are respectiful on that note

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Prepare to cry rivers if not oceans,,,hio madharau yote bado wauliza advice,,inakaa bado haujaumwa vizuri,,Rudi ukamatwe vizuri hautarudi kuuliza mwelekeo hapa,,and that will be too late juu atakuwa amekuogezea 2nd born

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Usidanganywe na watu, u know better how to deal with your man, ukiwa hafanyi vituko so mbona ukae mbali naye, sote tuko ivo, hakuna perfect, kaa karibu na bwanako ukiwa mbali bado lust itakua tu unataka afanye aje

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

I just wonder why u are talking to him….. imagine a man who left u with his own child kama hana roho ya kukaa na wewe akoje mzae mtoto what tells u he’ll never leave u again….. sweetheart u deserve better so stop waiting for the lost son☹️#tunakaangumu

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

The guy is your husband. When we are attacked in any way it’s usually the devil who does the work and definitely he’ll attack you through your loved ones.no matter what,please forgive him and also seek counsel from God.Yote hutendeka kwa wema

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Marriage is for better for worse.do you still love him.am sure he gave you fair because hata wewe ulikuwa umemfika kwa koo.sit down the two of you retrieve your steps.understand each other.
Go back to your husband now that he wants you back then humble yourself and be submissive.no man will replace him as the father of your baby.
Utazunguka na utakuja kulia.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Sasa mrembo nikuulize wakati ulikuwa na mimba aliwaona ladies na akaenda extra mile ya kuku pea Fair uende kwenyu Sasa utakuwa ukiwa na mimba utakuwa una enda kuzalia kwenyu ….. My opinion;- kubali tu ajee kwenyu waeleze wazazi wako na wazazi wake waje ama wazee lakini asije na mahari kwanza akija useme kitu iko kwa roho yako na umpe masharti akiyakubali ajee na mahari lakini ukae chonjo ukienda

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

You already know what you are going in to. You understand how dark his heart is to have mistreated you and sent you home in that condition. He has not come for you, neither has he apologized. Nyani ni yule yule. Take your time and make a wise decision.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

If I were you I would wait for them to come. And lay down all the things alinifanyaia nikiwa kwake. Then I give him the warning.incase arudise madharau. Alafu we go for hiv testing. Na ukirudi go back prepared with an open heart that anything can happen. Save as much as u can. Lea mtoto na uchunge kupata mwingine. But don’t go b4 wakukujie kwenu

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

My dear there is no perfect man under this sun. A man will always remain to be a man that’s how they were created but from this point you can mould him to whom you want him to be. Be wise my dear…… Waeza olewa na mwingine awe worse kuliko huyo wa kuleta wanawake kwa nyumba. Na if your really for marriage there’s no perfect marriage you make perfect in your own way. Lastly think about child. Kaeni chini na yeye and iron things out. I belive your wise…… And one more thing its you two talk and iron things out no third parties…… Usiache hasira ikutawale.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Mbona hao wazazi wake hawakumwongelesha venye alikwa anakuonyesha madharau,, time u needed him most that’s wen u wa pg he treated u like a trash,, sasa sai do u think amechange? He can’t so think carefully n make a wise decision

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Pliz ladies some of you av good but some of you pliz advise someone wisely. My advise is have you ever sat down and talked? What is the story on your side, how did you treated during your pregnancy, after you were given money to your home what’s your reaction? Understand some men during pregnancies changes and also some women homornes changes to an extent of mistreating their men and maybe this why you detach from your man. Hope we have ever had of women even beating men during pregnancies. Meet him then make decision and make sure you meet when you are stable in mind and heart as one have said make a very careful move. Don’t meet him before he have come to your home with his parent na make your decision sound strong.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Nowadays I love with my head. Me husema sina roho tena. Think uyo maybe kasha gonjeka anakutaka uwe nurse wake ama u mjoin kwa ugonjwa fikiria tena sana

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

He mistreated u Da time u needed care.if u still holds his feelings it’s u to decide but remember to go for screening asikuwe he’s infected and he want to pass it to u as well

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Every marriage has gone through it own test of fire, you just go back, let sit and find away of such cases. Otherwise some of us her who are discouraging u they gone through the h**l na wako kwao. Marriage is not a bed of roses.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Don’t try to reunite with him,he hates you, he is a pretender and womanizer and conman carry on with your life and your baby ,you will get your rib just be patient ,all is not lost ,if you go back to him he will humiliate you more than before

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Mimi nilitendewa ivo nikiwa na mimba ya mwezi mmoja,kwanza Yangu ilikuwa noma sana coz iyo siku nilitupiwa mpaka vitu nje and I was seriously sick,I didn’t even cried sijui kwa nini,nikaenda nikateseka mpaka nikazaa,I was even thinking of aborting the kid,after delivery nikamuonea hapo akijidai amekuja kumwona mtoi,nilimwonyesha madharau mbaya sana,but after three yrs wakaniomba msamaha ,wakanitolea mahari na sasa tuko na yeye,my advice kama anakutaka atoe mahari kwanza

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Just go back to him koc a man need a short leaving for him to feel and know your role you’ve been playing.So just go and sit down with him and plan for a new re engagement tell your weaknesses as well he does so to you..and Pray always for God to stand on ur marriage.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

I’ve seen Many ladies advicing you to quit. I’ll oppose them, go back to him na usilegee in a way ya kukuonyesha matharau. Be a woman of integrity. Usiwe mwepesi wa kushawishika tuuu na unafuata. Kua mkali kwake where nessesary ingawa sio ati saa zote.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Marriage is a lifetime event..not a trial… Dont anyday do an experiment with ua body…the man is frustrated , he has not changed…he only wants an association with success..the baby is 4 months now .has he shown a helping hand ?..show off si shida anaeza kuja apate space….with u missing …who will be a fool..zile madharau bado zipo…usisahau …so be wise hun ua not desperate neither a suggestion box..marriage is not a carrier.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:28

Don’t! Don’t! You know what?
They are just after their kid,watakuwa Sana karbu na wewe then believe me,once mtoto atatembea ndo utajua unyama wao💯,they will chase u away like a 🐕 🐕,so my advice is that,,,,let them come kwenu kwanza,infact they pay dowry ndo uende bure ukijaribu,,ole wako

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