Psychologically you had the mind of a relationship with your friend but only because you met a crush on your way be sincere Mr Alfred no friendship of opposite sex ends minus sex unless you are relatives

If she’s been your close friend for that long din’t she know you were dating someone else until you reached a point of marrying to her astonishment? And for four years you never knew if she had a bf too?

Since she’s a great friend to you she can make a good wife too but read her intentions and the way she takes you girls love men’s company and they may want u but won’t say..So open up and talk.

I can trust this guy ………males and females can be friends only if you mind your distance……..I feel you but it’s good you tell her ……as for me I also have one and as we talk I alert her am not yet ready for relationship

Stop! Which type of fun is that? There must be something you guys where doing,which made her feels positive feelings and belve that you have something.really,why should play with other pple feelings?do you know how it feels?you could have make things straight to her from the start,you could have not confuse the lady!

How could she be your friend if she didn’t even know u were dating someone else to a point of wanting to kill herself.u led her on bro,don’t lie that u saw her as your sister,

Go away….!!!….. you can’t lie to yourself….you sensed it but you decided to be careless……and took advantage of her feelings..,..,why were you taking her home..

You take me home kwenu….basiii I officially remain there i would be there untill now 😃….with mother in law
..!!…,…your lucky she returned 😃😃

thank God sikujui bro
,.!…bciz.I would also join parents we protest.,.. you must marry her…

Hi. Are you in a relationship with someone you don’t trust. You suspect him of having affair behind your back but don’t have PROVES yet. His phone is full of passwords. Well, I know someone who’ll help you tap and give you access to his phone straight to your phone remotely. Monitor sms, WhatsApp, calls, mails, gallery etc. Serious persons interested inbox I refer you. NB. No touching his/her phone.

Tricky Sana,,if u love her just Marry,,bt if u don’t acha tu…bt u Ave to sit umuogeleshe muelewane.

Hahaha it’s hard small, that’s the way life goes, follow your heart little brother, imagine if it were you who wanted to marry her and she doesn’t want, what would you do, would you kill yourself! Definitely no, she won’t hurt herself for you 😂?Anto Jumama kuja uone huyu

If it was only friendship then why did you have to introduce yourselfs to your both parents???the girl is right to think that way but just sit her down and make her understand the difference between friendship and love otherwise me I normally watch this in movies..

Dilemma.my advice, love fades,friendship lasts.my long time friend ,our families were friends up to now are,dated me for 4 yrs.stood together in hard times as you say.when I wanted to marry I chose other guys.he genuinely pleaded but I declined.I got married. Things did not work out.I walked out after 9 yrs.He later married.He is very successful and happy. My advice now is the later is SILVER,the former is GOLD.choose

Always friendship leads to strong relationship n marriage so in this u failed her coz she was waiting for your proposal

Bro sometimes read her signs, she might have been telling you through body language all along.
Sit her down and put all your cards on the table, discuss this issue to the very tail end.
Inaeza kua she wasn’t into you at first, but by helping each other, going to both your families alikua ana interpret kua you are also into her na wewe pia umeshindwa kumuambia what is in your “heart”.
It is advisable to marry your best friend coz anakujua both your weaknesses and strengths and she can know how handle you in your ” marriage”

Listen urself first. Why were you thinking going to introduce her to ur family .And vise versa . Learn to appreciate the good she has wasted with you. But don’t marry her if you don’t love her. Your family means nothing when you choose life time partner

And during that four-year period, you never once picked up that she might have developed some romantic feelings for you?

Just marry your friend and stop the confusion of lovers and friends. Love is imaginary but friendship is real it’s make people walk together

You have mistakes also.The way you were handling your relationship signaled extraordinary acts that were interpreted as’ future husband and wife’s .How can you be in a relationship with someone of opposite sex for long and you expect people to term it normal relationship?

That’s real joke there’s something you are hiding here. how can you take someone to your home and later you refuse to marry 4years ???????? Regret comes later if you’ll marry the other lady other than the one you know for 4yrs

On which grounds were both of you visiting relatives or both sides;don’t hide anything, speak the truth and get assistance!!