I have been feeling a heavy weight on my heart lately and I need to get something off my chest. I made a mistake and I regret it deeply.
A few years ago, I left my husband for another man who I thought offered me excitement and a change from my mundane life. But as time went by, I realized that the grass wasn’t always greener on the other side. The new relationship was filled with its own set of problems and insecurities.
Meanwhile, my husband moved on and found happiness with someone else. This has left me feeling empty and alone. I now see the love and the life that I had with my husband and realize that I took it for granted.
I am deeply sorry for the hurt that I caused and I hope that one day, my husband can forgive me. I regret my actions every day and I will spend the rest of my life trying to make amends and finding a way to earn back his love.
The grass is always greener on the other side. Your story sounds similar to another one I know who left her then husband+ 2 young kids. Went sorted another 2. Things turned upside down; she realised she was baby mama #6, and the man kept adding. Thrown out of house. Now wants to go back to her formeran. But…the ex has since moved on and has a child with her replacement. Vumilia tu penye uko. Ama tafuta another one.
We all make mistake. But let him go. U will only stress yourself for trying to get him back
Stop calling Him your husband. That seat has a new owner.
At best, He is your previous husband.