I have been married for 2 and half years now. We have 2 kids offlate we have been having constant bitter arguments over minor things , so juzi hubby told me sex with me there’s no pleasure it just but horrible.am stressed.
This is why i said that,it’s hard to give the right advise,when someone can’t say the truth-the real cause of argument starts by who between the 2 of you,and why?People will tell you whatever come on their mind by thinking shallowly:some will say hubby anakudharau,he’s cheating on you and many others,forgeting that marriage is a long journey to travel,full of ups and downs and different from dating.It needs love,respect,understanding and flovours to make it sweet.PRAYERS to make it stable and perfect.According to my experience:
1.Mapenzi ya mwanamke hupungua kwa mume anavyozidi kuzaa watoto na kiburi kuongezeka kwa sababu mwanamke huona kwamba amepeleka mizizi na hawezi ng’olewa kwa ndoa
2.Bila heshima na upendo,hakuna amani kwa ndoa.Bila amani kwa ndoa,ngono haiwezi kuwa tamu hata ibembelezwe namna gani
3.Tofauti zenu kwa ndoa suluhisheni wawili,mkihusisha mtu wa 3,huenda ndoa ikayumbayumba zaidi
4.Kila mmoja wenu aelewe mwenzake,mwe tayari kukubali makosa na kusameheana.
what were you doing that u are not doing now? ok but chunga hizo pembe umemea baada ya kuzaa watoto wawili zitang’olewa.
Its been a problem actually to a majority of ladies. I understand kuna walr hupasuliwa kule chini to help kid out, then kuna shonwa. Many won’t let the wound to heal hence rush to sex or sijui nn uhapen hence leave you with wider p***y. And to worsen matters pia kuna wale hawajui what is romance. Ni kulala tu bora ako uchi, jamaa lipandilie lifanyr liwezalo limwage lishuku. Jamaa ataboeka na atajaribu kando and if services are good atapotea. Mjaribu na kina doggy, mende styles, try to scream when he’s doing it. Kama bado analalamika, mpikie uji ya watoto akunywr aogr alale
Kwni n nn unafanya tofauti na hapo awali ndio hakulalamika wakati hua eti analalamika sasaðŸ™„
Stop argument,men hate that,argree what he is telling you then if you concure with him find a suitable moment to discuss the issue,anaona Kama umheshimu so he withdraws his mind from you till bed time
Those minor arguments just accept it’s your mistake even if it’s not and always apologize then try to please him make him his favorite dish and he will enjoy sex with you
Coping with a woman in marriage is like maintaining an old vihecle on the road. It is for men and not boys. Men who understand Child bearing is no mean feat, it takes toll on the woman; it involves changes in hormonal regimes which in turn affect not only her figure n sex organs configuration but her sex drive too. Fortunately most of these correct themselves with time, or through medical lintervention.
Brother if you can’t bear those seasonal tides, stay with your mother. You’re not ripe for marriage ðŸ˜‚ðŸ˜‚ðŸ˜‚
Mkifanya. Sex bila amani ni. bure,enjoy sex. when. you’re happy kisses ,nakushika shika p***y ,p***s italeta raha kwa marriage.
Haaa ati stressed!!!….my sister that thing is urs ur in control.if it’s not fun kuingia wacha aingie kwenye ni fun so oga ,chapa makeup n shine like u don’t care.Dont let a man ruin ur self esteem by finding flaws in u just coz he f***s outside like a he goat.
If you dont give your man peace he will never enjoy sex with you!! Atakua anafikiria watu wengine….ðŸ¤£ðŸ¤£ðŸ¤£ðŸ¤£
Focus on ua marriage… honey moon is over, mzee is focusing on responsibilities,…sex is sweet b4 entry of children, lakini baada ya apo ni shot moja ya haraka haraka.
Why feel stressed haa for me ooooh that won’t be a big deal my sex is bad OK you will regret coz l won’t give you even for a day waaa
You are not alone,after two years you have known his pros and cons, just understand him and accept.it is life.
Hey huyo ni kama amepata kazuri mahali. Forsure tangu uzae watoi wawili kwani alikuwa anafeel aje? Coz hiyo kuna ka ujanja xana. wakati mkitafuta mtoto wa kwnxa tamu, ya pili kutafutwa ilikuwa tamu sai unaanxa kuleta upuxi jipange dada hyo jamaa ameonja ka kitu tam mahali