Confession #790

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I have been married for about 5yrs and this is my 6th year but nikona shida mbili. Moja ya insecurity na ingine ni lack of Trust for my hubby. He is an amazing man and i thank God na sijawai mpata na scandals za madem hes always open with me hata simu yake huwa ananipea nikitaka na sijawaipata kitu yyte weired na hata nikishuku kitu huwa namuuliza na ananijibu kwa uzuri We are always together hata kazini. I rlly do want to trust him but am always scared that anaweza cheat yaani the thought of him being unfaithful huwa inanimaliza and i always tell him ile siku atajaribu marriage yetu itaishia hapo sitakuwa na nguvu ya kumforgive i think hii lack of trust ilicome ju ya my previous relationships bt its like i never healed from them but how will i change na nitrust hubby ama trust nimwachie yesu pekee😂

June 10, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Xx apo unataka advice ya nn?kwani unabeba maneno ya rlaship ingne upeleke kwa ingne?siku atajua u don’t trust him ndo utajua hujui atafanya tu venye unafikiria

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

My dea I understand u it’s box uve hv undergone failures in the previous reship. .and again I know such pple like u hv a good faithful heart to accommodate a hubby in every situation..bt let me tell you don’t be ready to catch him and leave cheating b ready to forgive him and posess and stick to him as ua future hubby .even if u find him cheating. .don’t leave..be ready to fight to win him back..men wil always try cheat coz thts their nature…jenga kwako and claim huko ni kwako hakuna atakayekutoa..again not kila lady wil see him handsome ..mayb ww tu ndie unamwona handsome

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

The more you’re showing him that you don’t trust him, know that you’re pushing him to cheat, & eventually, he will. Msg zingine unaweza pata tuu na una assume Nika hujaziona. Bora tuu, asinikanyage pabaya

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Tulia my friend,,so far so good n u can’t even complain ,hio mind uko nayo ndo itakumalizia boma,,if mpaka sai hujai mpata na issue yyote,,then why stress yoself,,,kama ulivioambiwa,,kenye unatafuta utapata tu😒😒

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Sasa jua hivi ile siku utampata akihanya hakuna mahali utaenda iyo ni mdomo tuu😬take it to the bank, kwanza this incident itacome saa yenye umesota hauna ata pesa ya kurent nyumba but kama you’re the type of going back kwa wazazi utaenda na hutakaa utarudi kwako eventually😂😂😂😂

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Sasa jua hivi ile siku utampata akihanya hakuna mahali utaenda iyo ni mdomo tuu😬take it to the bank, kwanza this incident itacome saa yenye umesota hauna ata pesa ya kurent nyumba but kama you’re the type of going back kwa wazazi utaenda na hutakaa utarudi kwako eventually😂😂😂😂

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

This is very normal for women infact 90% of women are like this, what you are going to is pray God to give you trustworthness to your husband infact he is faithful, and for you brush off this spirit of wishful thinking from your mind, love your husband, he loves you so, much as you say,

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Stop being suspicious and mind your own business,why do you worry alot about a person you found with 32 teeth, unless you are a victim

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

The problem here is that you entered into marriage when not ready and most probably for the wrong reasons. You came into the marriage still carrying baggage from your previous relationship. You need professional counselling before your man gets tired and dumps you

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Its normal trust yes, but a room for benefit of doubt. Some insecurities are dangerous and may harm your relationship. Men don’t like childlike Monitoring ,he may not show but might get tired

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

What is eating you is called the fear of the unknown.why in the name of our Lord should you wish he cheats on you?you ought to be praying and fasting that he remains as trustworthy as he is now .what your mind conceives is what it will give forth to.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Ashabonga na side chick kuwa anawife so he is the one to make a call then clears all call logs when coming home,sasa you promised to end marriage if you find him cheating on you,then he must play the cards well for the marriage to exist,,,,some thoughts should remain in your mind,you couldn’t have aired such promises to him

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Uko lucky mummy nkt kneel down and repeat after me.. ” HEAVENLY FATHER I THANK U FOR A WONDERFUL BLESSING AMEN”

Madada zako hapa nje wamepiga vita za side chicks hata wamechoka… Some men hata wanaoga na simu hata wanalala nazo kwa makwapa ndo ma bibi wasikaribie…

MARRIAGE ni ya walio na roho ngumu.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Don’t trust too much.a man is a man,they are not angles remember,so get prepared for anything,so that when it comes,you know how to face it .but ukiishi hivo ,utakufa haraka na stress juu.you will run mad .so you better change otherwise hautamani.your man is really trying so,be proud of him,keep praying

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

I know what they do especially those leaving phones unlocked and available. The sidechic is aware and comfortable that you exist. she won’t call him,he calls her.he deletes all call logs and texts. She’s not a friend on Facebook or any social media platforms.
The only way you will confirm he cheats is through his mpesa full statement. Hio inafichangwa kama title deed. It has all information you need.or better still ngojea wakosane na side chic she’ll come to unleash her bitterness on the wife,that’s how we know she existed.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Hahaha wake up early from thee slumber, married men mostly play safe especially on phn matters it’s a high time j get to know tht all men cheat like it or leave ite but live bye the fact cz when I one day realize the truth u will hv a heart attak be wise

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

U only need to trust him even the day you find him cheating, imagine he never cheated. Otherwise any man is potential to cheat not because he doesn’t love you but men like adventures ask your grandma

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Shida yako ukona wivu kwa wingi tena unampenda sana your hubby,so hiyo wivu ndio inakumaliza bure tuu bila ya kukosewa na your hubby,change hiyo tabia ya wivu

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

I think men will always cheat,no matter how good you are?it’s in their genes,kama hujampata na any scandal then learn how to trust him ,but marriage is so sweet and at the same time it very bitter it need a strong partner to move on,it rains everywhere,very few who are faithful may be 2&

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

Take this from me, the minute u posess something with ur mind u attract either the negative all the positive n it becomes a reality. Incase akichoka nawewe i pray he never does, ulimpea a way out, that if he cheats u will leave. Change ur thinking sweetie

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

I Know of a man, who loves his wife so much, he has 3 phones and the wife knows he has only two. He has two side chicks and the wife has never suspected him. So please run away cos men will always cheat it’s there nature.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:34

It’s normal to feel that way…You should tell him too actually.And an advice for you is that most of the time we can only do the right things when we get our feelings out of the way.You should also try to remove that spirit of dread.where you fear bad things that have not happened because it will just suck the life out of your joy.Always rem thoughts are real forces.The more you emotionally think about something,you actually attract it. (The law of attraction)contact for more info

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