Confession #651

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I have been married for over 13 years “we” have 3kids(all boys)but none of them belongs to me. I know this for a fact but my wife does not know that I know. Let me explain…..
5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident with two of my friends, our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident,
I spent about 11months in the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can’t have children.
I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6 years into our marriage my wife got pregnant and had ”our” first child.
To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA n it was clear I wasn’t the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine. I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.
My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to young women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don’t know. I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about this situation
I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

May 25, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Sir, to be honest with you, it’s good to have faith in God and all but,“ your decision to keep your medical condition a secret” wasn’t right… if you had informed her prior before now and she agreed and went ahead to marry you, then you have every moral right to feel cheated, Sir with all due respect, without trying to support her actions but sir you equally share the blame here. I suggest you seek Godly counsel and pray for strength from the Holy Spirit to care this burden.

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2021-01-13 21:31:27

I was feelimg sorty for uou till I read the part where you didn’t tell your wife of your condition. You’re both extremely dishonest and thus deserve each other

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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Hmmm there is no need to confront your wife.Because you won’t be happy if people know you are important.Its not easy but live with it.

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