But why oh why do this kind of ladies get the best of the guys us who hustle like mad with or without support cannot get a quarter of such a guy but I guess this is life balancing itself or as the waengas say irris wari irris

Sit her down and tell her what you feel! Tell her it’s for the good of your family!
Tomorrow is gazing at you and it’ll treat you abnormally if you treat it normally!

Wah! Huyo si ana bahati!! Mi sipewi hata shilingi moja but shopping lazima nifanye na maisha yaendelee.

You are a responsible husband,go on,wale wanawake hawakai kwa nyumba hata wakiwa na wanaume,si kwa kupenda kwao,ni irresponsible men.keep up

Mtume kwangu for coaching.. you should have seen kitambo she’s bila vision.. atakuwa poa. She needs to b coached with the right attitude

Just settle down and discuss atakua tu xawa bora muelewane kando na hio huenda anataka akae nawe pahali uko na tena huenda hakuamini!

How many yrs have you been together..8k times 12months times those yrs🤔..I would be far…lawd but y..the sharp minded ones like me can’t get such meeen🙄

Cheza na akili yake, give her live examples let her imagine tomorrow haupo in her life how can she stand alone na familia… Try to pump some sense into her head ajue maisha ni hurdles atagutuka usingizini bro… Na zidisha Maombi…

Mwambie Kuna wanawake uku nje ata 500 hawapati bt ye ako lucky anapewa izo zote ,so achangamke ama umtaftie mwenye atamve vile unataka

Go en sit down with her na umwambie we need to invest now for the future of our children wasikuje kuteseka, furthermore it’s ur mistake coz ulmzoeza pesa anyway pray for her maybe atabadilika one day.

Kama hana mtoto ,mzalishe watoto then utafute side chick hio usingizi itaisha pap

stop fooling us even ur wife akireguest any money from u u dont provide na unatudanganyia etyiiiiiiiiiii 8k matumizi na ur salary ni haifiki hapo stop annoying women for no reason mshenzi

Sit down with her. Make her understand that you are partners in this and she needs to do her part.
However i think she’s gotten too comfortable being a housewife.

Both of u can’t be visionary people .So it only u who can chip in &help her.Another thing inaonekana from the beginning ulimuonyesha kumpa bila yeye kusweat even a single day.
In the family set up it’s either one is a planner &the other an implementer.
In this case,don’t force ur wife into business &maybe she is not of that field.
=_=Do this…maybe she is a good planner in issues,projects or any other thing….& U are the implementer.
Help her by talking with her to open up coz u know her better than we do.She might help in giving u ideas,then use the ideas to invest for the family & let her raise the kids.Dont be too harsh on her ,coz wat I know she can’t be just bad in everything.
May the Lord see u through

Ur inviting poverty into your life by force, my dear that woman is cursed, tafuta bibi huyo ni liability siku hizi watu wanatafuta assets

si unichikue tuanze maendeleo coz Mimi nishawai tamani ata bwana mwenye anaweza nifungulia biashara hasa hii wakati ya corona

I had such a woman some years ago. I dumped her like nonsense after noticing she can’t change. What are you waiting and the way there so many wife materials out here

Some women are lucky but don’t know it,we hustle on our own n no one to give us even 1k to boost our hustle,mkalishe chini umuulize vile anataka,what will happen in case ukose kuprovide tuseme maybe sickness or anything?

Wajinga ndio wenye bahati aki…wengine tunatamani angalau uachiwe ata 100 uchanganye na yako na unakosa…aki lyf is unfair to som of us.

Pretend something is wrong with the job from this month assume u don’t care juu io umemdekeza Sana na kama hataki ctakuambia aende but think before it gets worse!

That’s my teacher 8k per months !!!! , Sitaki nicomment vibaya unipee ka refer tukirudi shule 😃😃😃😃, Fanya shopping then usimpe even a single cent utaona tu akichange juu hatakua na any cash at the end of the year

That’s not a wife huyo ni slayqueen inform of a wife. ….ni kajinga Sana …najua quitex make up na trousers na miniskirt ndo zako na smart phone kubwa akishinda Tu online

Just talk to her peacefully.
And ask her which business she like. Don’t dictate to her.
Not everyone is a business oriented mind.
If she doesn’t have that interest just add another child and that is enough work for her.
Or else just let her find a job… period.

Wacha akae hapo Kwa nyumba alone for 1 month bila food