Confession #721

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I lost my life partner who I loved so much 6months ago. I had already introduced her to my parents that this lady will be my life partner, and they agreed. Her lover meant everything to me. She died on a road accident and left me alone, since she left am stressful and depressed, and whenever I approach a lady, I find myself flashbacking how she used to treat me. What can I do to move my mind out of her and choose another one?

June 1, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

My brother all these advice are v good, but let me tell you it’s not easy,mi I lost my partner two years back n it’s not an easy road, before you engage yourself to another partner (Heal) first n pray God to open your ways…

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2021-01-13 21:31:30

Sorry, but dont rush into loving, just take your time to heal as you pray to God for another good partner. God will direct you to another green pasture flowing with milk and honey, and maybe that first one was not meant for you. I have seen a lady going to wet tomorrow and the guy who was not sick die the night to the wedding day

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

Pole man. Take time so that the wound may heal. Then after accepting, that’s when you can move on. Otherwise if you rush the second relationship may not work well because you will keep on comparing the two relationships. Secondly, be rest assured that the next relationship may not be exactly like the first one. Because actually people behave differently.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

Pole man. Take time so that the wound may heal. Then after accepting, that’s when you can move on. Otherwise if you rush the second relationship may not work well because you will keep on comparing the two relationships. Secondly, be rest assured that the next relationship may not be exactly like the first one. Because actually people behave differently.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

Hello Aly, once you date another lady,make sure you tell her about your past to avoid misunderstandings. Once you do that let her take your past away .

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

So sorry may God intervine UA story so touching….for now only God can wipe UA tears let her RlP take ua time watch man of God kakanda ministry U-tube God will show u the next direction…

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

what u r going thru s normal n it wil go slowly,only if u accept the reallity that she s gone n neva wil come back n that ur lyf shuld muv on

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

Pray n accept she’s dead n will never b here but oping that she’s happi for u wherever shes…… Cry over it immessily n move on… I know it’s not easy but God heals every wound

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

Take heart n courage to b ur weapon.do go to another relationship B4 healing the first wound in ur heart.take tyme to heal n also pray hard n try to forget.Gods work has no mistakes n also He knows y He take her away from u forever .thank God n accept the situation the way it is.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

First accept what happened to you.
Take your time to heal first from the pain of lose.
God loves you and He already knows your pain.
Be strong and courageous,you not alone.
Read James 1:2-4,1Corinthians 10:13.
Don’t rush be humble.
Take it positively.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

Sorry for that loss. It can be hurting and imprisoning at the same time.
You’re in mourning period. 6 maths is just recently. Take time. It’s normal to remember her but you need to heal. Walk with somebody who can help hour heal. Accept it. You may be in denial stage. You may also need a counselor.
No major decisions should be made until you have full gone through grieving period which takes different length of time to different pple depending on individual response to the loss
It will be well dear.
Praying for you.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

6months it’s early, give yourself time, its not easy to accept the situation, but heal first ,, don’t rush to another relationship, then lastly allow her soul to rest in perfect peace

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

No painful na it’s chukua muda but itabidi ume accept ad move on, relax first then decide to look for another lady but omba Mungu akuondolee picha ya yule coz ukiendelea kumuwaza sana pia ata kuwa devil kwako na kila ukifikiria kutafta mwingine unaanza kumuwaza na roho inakufa unaaacha, so plz uneza pia tafta counselor pia mahali yuko akusaidie physically. But aliye aenda achana nae sahau mambo yake ad move on coz yy penye yuko sai ata akujui na hakuwazii, so pray ad move on

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

**First of all sorry for the loss,
**Give yourself tym as it’s always said that tym heals,
**Seek spiritual guidance n also some counseling,
**For she’s gone n not to come back,have the good memories yes n don’t compare any other lady to her so u may heal,
## our loved ones maybe gone but their memories r always with us##
That’s my take n wish u all the best.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:30

Its painful,First take time to heal then approach her for friendship n accept what happened… Remember there’s a reason for everything

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