I was married in 2015, we were blessed with a child,who is 4yrs old now…after two years, that was 2017 I joined college,my husband was paying my school fees.I finished college 2019 july.we stayed well until this year march when I one day found arvs in his pocket.He dinied.that they belonged to him but he later on accepted and admitted that he started using them back 2018.I visited a health center to know my status, and I have tested negative everytime.
May 12, 2020 |
This is possible, because when your partner is taking ARV’s the viral load is suppressed hence not passing the virus to you, there is also a factor of discordant couples. For now, visit the comprehensive care center for further help, and use protection in the meantime. All will be well.
In the late 90s I dated and married a young lady. We had lots of sex,no kids. One day she went to get medical check and she was found to be +. I did a test and was negative for 2 years. I have been negative since.We divorced,she takes her meds religiously and is health and doing well in life. Knowing what I know now,I should have stayed married instead of being all selfish.The stress I used to have in those days is indescrible. But I have never had a lasting marriage. Wishing you peace and best of health.