According to your allegations your hubby must be g*y. He only married you as a cover up but in real sense he is attracted to men than women. I don’t know if you had enough time to know each other well during courtship. What you need to do now is to seek counseling. First talk to your best couple. If it won’t work conduct a marriage counselor or your spiritual leaders. If worse comes to the worst involve your parents. If he won’t change then you’ll have no option but to seek divorce for the sake of your peace of mind and happiness. Good luck.

Sorry you are married to your sister he also needs a doshi just like you, wewe ulifuata ndevu, next time try a friendly match before you engage into a full-time game, that way you get to know what type of team you will be challenging in feature.

There are psychological issues about your husband that needs to be addressed, first you said that he was sodomised when he was young, then you said that he does not want you to see him naked and lastly that he creates road shows in order to attract men.

If its true he was sodomised, he could still be suffering psychologically and that he has not been able to overcome the hurt, negligence from those who were supposed to protect him and self esteem, in short he was emasculated.

About the second case, it could be that he has issues with his manhood, could be that it’s small, deformed or something else. he is not confident with his manhood and therefore may fear your reaction upon seeing what he has.

The third one implies that, one, you already have an impression or an idea or a preconceived notion of what he really is! It could also mean that he is g*y and that’s why he is attracting men.

Whichever the case, you could have been patient enough to know his problem before leaving

Sorry for what you went through.
But the truth be told. You didn’t consider important factors before marriage.
Understanding your partner well plus his or her background.
I may say you were moved by the material side (your hubby’s) salary than real love.
Sorry to say this but remember its better to walk out of it earlier than staying.
Marriage is not a welding even if it was through church.