Confession #4502
I’m in a relationship with a once married man with two kids (his and wife came with one) making them 3 the man is the one who moved out and left them everything.
He supports the kids,when he came to me I tried telling him he should go back because ain’t anything different from his wife and he said even if I won’t accept him he is not going back he will look for another one woman.
Now the problem is, the wife learnt about me (the wife stormed in his office and took his phone) took my number texted me blaming me for her failed marriage, cursed me that I will never know peace, that I told the husband to move out (which is a lie) bla bla you know how hurt people talk,I feel her though.
The man insists he is not going back he will take his kids and take care of them whether I will be in the picture or not.
The wife on the other side thinks I’m the reason the man is not going back because the first time he had left he went back after sometime.
Should I leave them to solve their issues or continue with the relationship. We’ve not moved in together yet.
This is an example of how wives break their own marriages and blame other people (You). Some women are just never accountable to their actions
He left… continue with the relationship while he solves his problems…ni yeye mkonaye ama ni bibiake?who do you want?
Take a break and watch at a far….like 1-2 yrs…I wonder how she took a phone with password and knew your number …alot to digest from that…let them sort their issues the guy ain't truthful
When you started lseeing him , was he already out or they were still together? If he was already out, my dear, there's nothing to be guilty about. And she should be dealing with her man not you. As far as u are concerned, you met a single man. Uyo mama is not ur problem na If their marriage didn't work how are you to blame? Just let the man take care of the kids that's all. On the other hand… don't dive deep into the man first, take ur time kumchunguza and make sure he's totally into you coz saingine these Cain's offspring don't know what they want. Good luck