Confession #1200

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Kuna huyu jamaa nilikutana naye nikiwa 20. He was the first man in my life and he loved me so much. Nilienda hadi kwao and his mum was happy with me. The problem is he such a mummy’s boy na pia side ya kitanda alikua shy saana though mzigo alikua nao. Eventually tuliachana. Nikapata mwanaume mwingine and we were happy. After 2 years nikapata mtoi dame only to realize this man was married and broke. Akanientice na maneno akaniambia vile bibi yake hampendi na alikubali kuolewa na yeye juu alimpea ball na akakaziwa nyumbani apelekee mwenye mimba.imagine i trusted this man hadi i used to provide for us with my helb money and pocket money from my parents.i even used to give him pocket money.i went to nairobi for attachment and luckily got a job.alinifuata nairobi tukawa tunaishi.he came with his son na hakua na job.nikakua breadwinner for 6 months.he was so comfortable and never botherd getting a job.nikatafuta jobs nikaapply na moja ikaenda through akaanza kazi.stil we shared bills though i paid like 80% while he took care of the rest.he always got mad when i asked him for money na mimi i gave him hdi transport ya kwenda job yet hio job analisha nayo bibi na mtoto nyumbani na i didn’t mind.i used to spend on his kids coz i thought if he had a problem with his wife its my responsibility to support him.he’d buy his kids stuff but not our daughter.from my end i spend all the money hadi nashindwa kubuy nguo na mtoi wangu.s**t happened and i got another baby who’s 3 months now.tangu nikue na mimba hadi nizae he has never spent a dine.i have taken loans which he promises to pay but i end up paying while zingine zimeaccummulate nimeshindwa kulipa.everytime i ask for money he gets mad and claims he has no money so i have to tafuta loans just for us to survive.am tired and i want out but i don’t know where to start.i do not have the courage to walk out coz am afraid of hurting my kids and i also care so much about what people will………..continued on comments.

October 29, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:47

…..will say. 7 years down the line my ex has never moved on while my current relationship is a complete mess. Could this be karma? How do i walk out without hurting my kids? Am so depressed.

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2021-01-13 21:31:47

Listen very carefully, wait til mtoy akue then move on no mess in real life, the guy atakushow hakupendi by the time you are not able to work of having a third kid or sick , do want you cant to save some money and start planning a business. We men are somehow fools at times to the person that truly loves us.

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