Confession #725

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My 11years old son is becoming a problem…am one person who never bembelazad mtoto….but off late namchukia tu…am single mum of two…but this boy aaaiii!!!so jana ameingia kwa neighbour akachukua USB……. Amekana vile hajui hata USB.. Asubuhi yeye ndiyo anaokota USB kwa mlango kupelekea mtoto ya neighbour hiyo kitu…..so imebaki ni yeye…but amekataa kuaccept….nimepiga nimechoka,nimeongea nimechoka…

June 2, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Kupiga mtoto haisaidii kabisa, first u need to be a sister ,afriend then a mum to your son/ daughter but ukitaka kuwa mzazi kila wakati u will never be able to understand your kids, sometimes weka uzazi kando kuwa rafiki and u will see things changing

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

If you are harsh to him he will become more wild and you won’t be able to correct him…..,so be his friend first

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Mtoto mweke free don’t treat him like adult, kaa na yeye chini akupee moshene yote let him be free with you usimkomeshe akiongea let him be am sure hamtawai kosana

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

First of all usimchukie,you are his mom and if you hate him no one in this world will ever love him pls mummy tell God something everyday you wake up pray together with him,secondly try kumpeleka kwa maybe uncle aongeleshwe ,inafikaga time mtoto anazoea kiboko so haoni big deal

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

That adole age is soo challenging to parents wetha yu are acouple or single.
My advice:
Usilegeze discipline.
Usichape ukifukuza,chapa ukimrudisha kwa nyumba coz ukichapa ukifukuza huko nje ndio atakua mbaya sana.
Chapa ukiongelesha.usichoke kumwongelesha.
Remember adole+peer preasure+corona zimechangia watoi kuharibika tho wazazi wengine wamechangia.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

pole sana, am also single wako 23 and 17 ni kazi ngumu bt ongea nae, jifunze kwenda church na wao wamjue Mungu, i did it and it worked licha ya changamoto bt i thank God, angalia wenye anashinda nao

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

😏😏😏😏😏😏😏mbwa wa kubweka🙄🙄🙄ata umvungie kwa choo ..anuse harufu ya mgeni nje🤔atabweka,,,hio inamaanisha..ata umchape azirai atabaki kuwa mwanaume… mwanaume Ni mwanaume ata Kama Ni kipiii..a mother of two twin boys aged 15yrs…am used my dear…but Neve change your mind of what you have ordered…be strong.. raising boy child is not a joke….

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

By hitting him atakua kichwa ngumu Sana some kids are like that, try and be his friend, pray for him, take him to his uncle’s or someone he will respect let him talk to him in calm way,,, love him and do not give up

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

You are the problem my siz,I also have kids bt if they make mistakes I normally have time with them ,I talk to them and they change,even if they repeat the same they fear coz they know I mean my words,beating your child every time makes them rude

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

May God help u aki… Wenye wanasema father figure there’s nothing like that.. Theres a neighbours son n has a father n they r filthy rich bt he’s a wanted thief as we talk.. He’s 12 n the whole village fear him.. Alikataa shule na akahama hom.. Utasikia tu asubuhi so n so aliiba sijui nn wapi.. Hapa u pray n tell God to help coz there’s nothing like kujua kulea..

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Lenga iyo story ata usiongelee mi niliiba ata pesa kwa neighbour but nko hapa I’m not a thieve my mum aliwahi jua nkamdangsnya,nka kataa,kesho nkarudisha kupitia diresha na nka ambia Mungu anisamehee I lived being worried cos I hurt mum but tym mum aliniongelesha nka furahi mbaya

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Endelea kuongea naye bila kelele.Ukitaka watoto wakuskize.. hata wakiwa na makosa,weka sauti chini ndio waskize yale unasema sio makelele.Ukiacha kuongea eti umechoka,nani atamlea,kumchapa pia dio solution.Akizoea kuchapwa ataendelea ns mabaya.Kalisha mtoto chini,reason naye,hakikisha anakusikiza.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

11 years is still a young boy. do you know his school friends and hid neighbours friends? kupiga sio solution utamuumuza bure. this is still a brain that need keen talks. remember the moment you ask a child a quiz in a harsh manner you will never get the real story. atazoea kuchapwa, kupigwa. just learn how to handle him

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

How do you hate your own blood? You are just like that boy….why do you want to believe he took it from neighbour!Do you know there is a lesson you are sending to that child?Boys will always be boys my fren….the more you become hard on him the harder he becomes…

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

As a mother to a boy myself i know the feeling. He needs to know that stealing, touching things that are not his and telling lies is wrong and since canning is not bearing fruit, take away his privileges and be very stern about it.

If he likes watching tv, no more…. If it’s playing video games… No more…. Playing, riding bicycle no more… No more phone,, et al.. And allocate to him house chores whenever he misbehaves Having made sure you tell him why he is being punished. And be consistent atakuja line.

If you are sure he is the one who took that USB, make him apologise to the neigbor, but if you are not sure and accuse him wrongly, he will feel like you don’t love him and become rebelious.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

When u beat him & it doesn’t change anything understand some of this characters is about feeling rejected & unloved..!! They interpret the altitude very fast,may be he took it but he didn’t mean to steal..!!..kids are kids,kushikashika tu…buuuut he couldn’t be honest with u coz of those beatings & trying to pls u….what he has become is what he understood from the beginning,u want perfection from him…. Let him grow,give him a space to make all the mistakes in this world, coz if he won’t do it now,he will later….just chose when u prefer as a parent.. Correct him with love coz no one will if not u as his mother..!!!

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

He has his uncles use one who can talk to him like a friend ,,kids always take advantage of their mum and absence of dad contemptuously,, let that person give him good moral lesson ,,let him know he who doesn’t listen to his parents teachings the world teach them harshly maybe by burning them completely,, Good things are ahead of his future only if he’s a law abiding citizen. This world has no sympathy for a boychild,,,He need to change as early as it is now or it will be difficult when it’s too late to safe him from wrath of angry mob justice even for something that he might not have done or just by walking in bad company. He need to change friends

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Fanya hivi mum am single of three boys iswear vile nilifanya wangu nilienda post nikipata askari n kabila yangu nikamweleza vile nataka so alinizaidia akamfungia kwa room 3 hrs na akamchuna ya ukweli na akachukua hii redio call yao akamwambia anamrecord hapo apost picha zake kila place akionekana akichukua hio camera inadirect kwa any police afungwe ,,na kijana alipadikika sai anamchua Mungu na ako form one na hii visanga alikua 5

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

That boy is depressed and he almost give up…
First find him a father figure mybe auncle. Who will mentor him .

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Beating doesn’t help much sometimes…
Kuwa ukimwongelesha telling the right and the wrong.
Arafu if possible wacha aache kwenda nyumba za watu. Reason being ata mtoto wa neighbour anaeza Fanya kitu kwao anaekelea wako.
Wacha son akae kwa nyumba yako.
Arafu keep hi busy.
Afue nguo,oashe vyombo,afagie,aoshe nyumba..
Mkiwa sitting rum kuwa unaongea tu na pia wewe listening to him keenly..
Na tenga siku ya kukaa na wao a whole day ata kama nikuwapeleka for refreshment uko swimming once in a well.
Hao wanasema wamama hawatawezana na boy shaod ni uongo.
All will be OK.mamaa.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Una fuga mwizi na ina bidi unyoroshe mti mapema kabla haija enda kombo.. Talk to him tell him the bad side of stealing other people’s properties…

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

I understand what yu r going thro’ sababu kuna kijana wa rafiki yangu pia alikuwa ivo…
Strategies:
1,,Avoid caning him
2,,Make him yua favorite child
3,,Don’t tire up talking to him and wen you do it make the talk friendly
4,,Tell him the repercussions of ‘long’ hands
Above all,share with him the teachings of God, accompany that with prayers..
All shall be well mama

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

The point is, you’ve hated your son for quite sometime and that’s what made you not to bembeleza him all along.
My advice is, change your attitude towards him, stop beatings, pray for him and pray more for yourself. If you continue mistreating him, he’ll harden and will either fightback or leave your house for good.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Kumpiga ndio kumwaribu…when I used to live with my dad I used to receive Cains as a dose daily ..but each day I advanced my mistakes.. When a was almost taken to approved school.My mother took me away to live with her I changed within a week because of her kindness.She gave me time to make my own decisions and listened to my views too..Until now am being referred in the village as a good boy …that the rest are told to imitate me

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Huyo mtoto hana makosa,makosa ni wewe, be a mother to him stop hating him and poison him with mummies love embrace him until he realizes you are such a darling to him, everyone harkens to a friend’s voice,he will here whatever you say,but if you continue corprol purnishment prepare a coffin for him my friend!

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Kumpiga sio suluhu mwongeleshe kwa upole na kiurafiki ata sikia na atarekebika usimpige atazoea kichapo na atasikia

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Just find a way to talk to him without kumpiga wala kumgombeza in short try and create a friendly r/ship with him and you will see he will opened up to you and you will be able to help him overcome hi problem

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:31

Muombee na usichoke kumuongelesha plz kupiga haisaidii juu atazoea tu viboko na ataona ni jambo tu la kawaida, instead badilisha pia purnishment umtishie hatakula akifanya kosa. Acha neema za Mungu zishuke jipe Imani atabadilika

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