Confession #622

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My husband wets the bed every night. Am tired of taking the mattress outside to dry every morming. Even our kids waliacha kukojoa kitambo sana. It is now stressing me for real. What can be done?! Nimechoka.

May 21, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Take this ardvice Na hutawai ona akikojao tena chukua polithine paper ngoja alale usingizi kisha funga hio paper Kwa sikio lake Moja akipinduka inamsumbua anaenda inje kukojoa and thank me later

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2021-01-13 21:31:26

As woman you need hide the dirty image of your house,if you expose your husband to people out there and even your children it means you don’t have wisdom.when you Got married you accepted every situation that you might go through either good or bad now the devil has now put you on test and it shows you have already failed.Turn back to God and repent pray, things will come back to normal and try to bring back the image of your husband to where it was before.if you are a Christian women conference will help

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Mambo zingine pliz mabibi jiwekeeni.wakati nilikuwa mdogo nilisikia mum akisema ” Mambo ya boma hayapaswi kuambiwa wageni” hata kama unataka kuondoka pack and leave without exposing your partner to strangers. I think this man has a brother plz use family members to solve this if he can’t listen u.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

First of all,I don’t know why you ashamed your husband in front of people,a caring wife don’t do that,secondly, you should have consulted a specialist,than talking all non sense as you’ve done,pambana na hali yako,there’s someone who wishes to have even that one who wets the bed,na hajapata

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

You r a fool kwani ndio ameanza kukojoa jana ; si ungemwacha after you immediately realized that, what do you gain after rubbishing your husband to your children and friends…. That is part of da vows you had taken, for your information sio kupenda kwake…. Let me give u a simple trick ; time wakati yy hukojoa then you set an alarm in that ikilia he/ you can alert him n wid time io problem itakua solved up ju atakua anaamka na kunyora

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

It is your time to seek diligently…what do you expect him to tell you and yet he is as grown up.. Satan is a liar. He will use this a weapon to destroy your marriage. Msaidie kimaombi that’s why you are there and God is waiting you to make a step of faith.. show him love.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

One first you must try to know if it is physical or phycological then start from there,if he was ok and he does not drink then he is stressed, mostly with this Corona thing,and even with your post you are like a don’t care woman who is stressing the man,come down and get help for him

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Hapo kiukweli inauma sana kama mwanamke lakini pia kumbuka kwa upande mwingine kila mtu ana madhaifu yake make mtu hakosi doa, kama kikojozi kutokana na pombe natumahi itakuja siku yatapita,, lkn km ni kikojozi kwa kutatanisha tu basi pale mfanye Mungu awe mkuu!!

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

let me tell you, everyone including you has at least some weaknesses and this should not cause discouragements in either our marriages or any other partnership. It is not their fault but they also wish to come out of it. What we do is to find how we can cope with these weaknesses and life continues. If it needs any adjustment then we adjust on it or in the other hand if it can be treated, the better. Pray for your hussy if he is the victim and perservere the situation.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Look…ppo have bigger problems out here,if u can only understand what ppo go thru in this life,u wd never see this as a problem to u, women have fistula,some have kids with health problem,some can’t walk,some have relatives who require 95 percent of their time and commitment,u don’t you know that love covers alot of weakness??? Why shd u let ur kids know that your hubby urinates???? It’s because u don’t love him,u don’t respect him… instead u shd have covered him The way u approach him may lower his self esteem hence making him aggressive.if bed wetting will make u leave him,I pity u….kumbuka hujafa,hujaumbika

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Lazima ataongea Kama mafi kulingana jinsi unavyomuuliza. Tangu muoane mkazaa watoto mami! Usimtharau mume wako plz amekuzalia Wana unao jina kwa kuishi na yeye. Honest truth you can’t change him but you can tolerate him..vile umekuwa ukifanya tangu kudate. Solution is buy plastic mattress cover that way you will only be washing bedsheets. Normal washing..and life continues. Jst give him his respect. He can’t be doing that on purpose rem that mum.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

My dear …this is very normal, I have experienced this and of late imeisha… You will be surprised that once in awhile it happens to both of us.. but hizi huitwa Siri za nyumbani… Iam using myself to advice you. Kindly be humble love him and ukiamka wash the malazi, Anika matress and muamshane usiku mwende kususu.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Love sometimes is powerful …..you can just try to work out for a solution with him atakama ni kumuamsha ata 5 times …alafu day hajasusu make him feel special either by making a meal …in the meantime see a doctor for further treatment

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

We all know its abnormal for adults to wet beds,you should have started by seeking medical help as well and try to be caring by waking him at night to go and pee finally pray hard demons and evil spirits are on the rise! Mean while delete this post and learn to cover your home affairs.there was a reason why God said a stupid woman destroys her home with her own hands. May God grand you wisdom

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Afadhali huyo wako anakojoa kuna mwingine jirani yetu,yeye anaota anakunya na anajipata amekunya kwa bed,na Bibi ake anampenda hivyo,so kua mvumilivu nanii,na ujenge boma yako,,,

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Abusing your man on social media won’t solve your problem….na ukishatuambia anakojoa unadhani nani atatoka kwake akuje akusaidie kuanika hizo vitu….u should be posting on how u can help change your man…..jiheshimu san

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Si kupenda kwake..why talk like that …na watoto wamejuaje Kama si we umemwambia ama from your careless words…do u really love this man….do u care about him,? Do u Know it also stresses him….how would u feel if it was u….young lady learn kufucha uchi ya nyumba yako..acha kuanika mume wako..Anika mattress

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

This is how you have already mismanaged the situation. Suppose you had fistula how could you want him to put up with you? Elewa bwanako,talk to him and understand his problem before mwende hosi. He could diabetic

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

I do understand its depression your going through, that’s why u expressed yourself in this manner. Those criticising her….. Just for a sec put urself in that situation, its not easy. Lizzie sit with ur husband down n talk….. seek medical attention, u can has well wake him up twice at night. If he doesn’t listen to u…. I suggest give him some space afikirie kujisaidia.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

Set an alarm after two hours, Wake him up Tell him how much you love him.Request him to go out with you.Be creative to improve the condition.Otherwise you will be a good and experienced teacher. Many of us we have not experienced such conditions, therefore we don’t have good answers.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

I don’t find the reason of condemning her..if she exposed him is because she is tired…amemficha kwa mda mrefu lkni Mme mwema akiulizwa swali at list anajibu kwa heshima na anaomba msamaha lkni Hutu wake amesema anaongea kama mavi…meaning he is rude despite the wife is trying hard to wash the beddings na kutoa mattress nje ikauke…ebu imagine neighbours wakijua ni yake n watoto washajua babake anajikojolea…respect is the most important in marriage but if one does not respect the other mambo yatakua haya tu

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

You need to know that no one is perfect,try to be a little softer and caring in your approach to this issue,maybe he is going through H**l and you don’t even know it,he may be bleeding in silence.. All you can do for now is love and care for him like a child and hopefully it will get better

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:26

I wonder why you are exposing him,most likely the kids you are saying they know might not be his,maybe you have made him sink into depression more by stigmatising him n he opted getting drank to get over it,he needs medical attention n you should help him instead of exposing him,I fail to understand,if he is bad as you claim why are you still there?for material wealth? think

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