Confession #962
Now, like 6months ago my siblings and I decided to go and seek blessings from our parents. We started with Dad who lives here in Nairobi though he’s married to another woman. We contributed 4k each and everything went well. Now it came mom’s turn we did the same and everything was successful but we started discussing on how we can start visiting each one of us at a time I asked”now that the younger bro is the only one in nyeri,Incase time comes and he lacks fare how do we help him?just by asking that question the two brothers started arguing and mom was there.the elder one because he has money started to b rude.mum silenced them and early in the morning I went back to my place.that afternoon dad called me telling me I went home to disrespect mum and that I’m the one who started the fight.i was told to go back home and apologize to her.it pained me to know Mom,elder sister and Bros wife are the ones who lied to dad.i blocked all of them to date.now my other sister was calling me to tell me mom is sick and everyone is comtributing 2k. For sure feel I have no love for them coz that’s not the first incident.is there any curse if I fail to help her,it pains me to know I didn’t go beyond class eight and dad was able to give me education. All they know is to stress me and since I finished class eight sijawahi waomba support. Please advice.
July 17, 2020 |
Gutiri kirumi gia uturika kingikunyita utehitie,..no niundu waciana na nyumba yakù,nowitue kirimu na uthii umuherere ngoro ciao ciiganire tu Ngai wa gutuanira macira na mbaara ario gitiini
Just contribute because even the life you have was contributed by your mum…
God knows the secrets of your heart
Forgive your mum and please even if if you didn’t start the fight just be humble and apologies by doing it you are opening doors for God to fight for you also forgive your siblings then after all that go to church make an offering to God so that he may fight for you
Wisdom is saying sorry even if you didn’t do anything wrong this might help you ,reconcile with your mother before contribution
That is how blessings comes the one who was loved will miss it and the one who was hated disp will get the blessings when he stands with the needy up to the end.Never give up…..
My dia sister we are all living in the same kind of live but issues like this one’s we forget our misunderstandings n unit cos unity is the key.Never allow the devil use you as the instrument of destruction, but learn to forgive n forget cos after all.Those who wronged you will come back n apologize, live is full of drama, hills,valleys, meanders, quarrel, scratches n shorts of misunderstanding n hate.Learn to forgive n forget cos even Christ himself told us to forgive 77/7have you reached that?give way for your blessings to come to you.Our God is at watch!!!!
Keep your distance until mom calls you herself. If she despises you every penny you send she curses you and things will get bad for you. Keep off
Usilipe mabaya na mabaya hata uende wapi u will never get another mom contribute n leave the rest to your Creator
Once there was a teacher who loved his pupil to the most ,,,, as part of teaching he ordered them to carry ripe tomatoes each came Monday as it was on Friday..
Reaching Monday he came to realise that his pupils carried as just the way he ordered as some came with ten some two some none but that never mattered to him…
The day came to pass without him asking for them …next day the same incident happened same to the subsequent days till Friday when he came to realise that some pupils had started to complain
But from the bulk he said to them know assume that every single tomatoe is your fellow human being that you hate … you’ll come to realize that more enemies you have bad the smell will intense ,,, same to your situation fade all hatred treat the bad with good &the good with good it will be healthy for you
Go specifically to see your mama and help her to your ability and never get tired of doing her goodies same to the dad…. talk well to them even though they have hurt you& you will live part of heaven life here on earth.
Don’t even imagine not contributing.Forgive and love them.You will be glad you did.Your English is good for a class 8.
Just contribute and go apologize. Am sure you uliongelesha huyo bro sonko vibaya that’s like kuchezea oesophagus ya mamako😂😂😂😂 after that kip distance and get busy during family meetings. Ukitaka kuvist mamako enda na umake sure it’s only one day
To hasira yako onana na wazazi tafuta aunti au uncle uende naye mketi nao na uende chini uombe msamaha wakiwa hai ukimaliza enda kwa kanisa umwambie mtumishi was mungu akuombee na akutenganishe na maroho ya be mababu uenda jina au Kuna vitu vilifanyika bika kujua labda kiuganga plis,omba wazazi msamaha wakiwa hai,na usimame na kanisan nimeketi,pole xana
Honor your father and your mother,for this is the only commandment with a promise.
Go back home n say sorry to yr parents whether y wronged them or not.lf not
they can easily ruin yr life.
Ok u r a Christian, ed the BIBLE says “honour your father & mother regardless of what” that is not a request. Again, Dad has the power to curse & also bless unlike mum coz if mum had the power to bless Rebbeca angejibarikia Yakobo. But God promises blessings by respecting her or curses by disrespecting her. Education is not what prescribes u as a child of such parents but u are a child by birth & therefore bound by God’s law of respecting parents. Cool down and visit them with remorsefulness. Utabarikiwa.
Oooh she is your mum,assist her where you can,never let her to pour tears coz of you sijui humsaidii,this one will cut short your li fe n blessings dear
The pain your feeling is really understandable, bt my dear my advice Just try to let go of the pain and the bitterness you have, yes they did you wrong, and thanks to God hujaiwaomb a pesa the way you say it, help your mum and you will see how God will favor you with lots of blessings
You feel misunderstood and mistreated by your siblings. Try to forgive them though it’s not easy.
Try to visit your mom and listen to her advice
Forget about the past and focus on maintaining a good relationship with your family. You didn’t go beyond class eight yet me i went beyond high School but my English still can’t match yours. You are great and should start by appreciating yourself and this way you’ll start burying the pain that is in your heart and learn to forgive as this is the pillar of Christian values. Let go, forgive your parents and siblings and you’ll also feel relieved from the burden of hate you’ve carried along with you all this time.
There’s something you’re hiding, you said its your brothers who argued and your mum silenced them, that’s what you know is factual. If your dad said what he said, it was your responsibility to explain to him what transpired and further go to your mum to set the record straight but you decided to worsen the situation by blocking them due to reasons known to yourself!
My advice is, don’t sent that money. Go see your ailing mother, give her whatever you can and keep on checking on her progress.
If you want to live a happy n satisfied live,learn to assume many hurting situations n learn to be a don’t care when someone is blaming you.When it’s more painful,make fun of yourself cos there is tomorrow. East west home is the best.
4give ua mum and when u take the blame n apologize even when u didnt do it that means u are ashaming the devil and God Will Fight 4 U,make Ua Path Straight 4give N 4get And Move On With Ua Life
If you’re in the position to help just help, now, send the money but don’t talk, don’t bother to inquire ati ni nini kinaendelea, nyamaza mpaka wenyewe watajua walikukosea,.# jifunze kunyamaza.Silence kill’s.