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One of the things I hate most in a relationship is when my partner expects to keep checking on me in the name of ‘CARE’… I hate to be called every now and then especially if you have nothing specific you want to communicate…And for sure I will not call you either, just to check on you…. I find it nagging… Heheeee I know kuna wale mistari ndo zao…. Na wengine pia wanapenda izo 150 calls per day!! But I’m sure there are people whose lifestyle cannot accommodate some style of loving… When you enter a new relationship, ask her/him how she loves to be treated. Stop guessing or loving her/him the same way your ex liked. You may not appreciate alot of things that the ex did. Even when we go to our private room, pliz uliza Mimi how I like it . Don’t insist on something you may notice I don’t like…. Be open to each other and don’t be shy…. One may be amused by coffee dates, dinners, partys, movies travelling, etc while the other is not intrigued by such. So next time ask!

June 5, 2020 |