Confession #650

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So, i got married at a very young age, after high school, I couldn’t join college due to financial problems in my family, so ended up into early marriage. It was good at the beginning but things changed along the way. Long story short, he left, 2months ago after 17years. Left me with 4children, I don’t miss him because of the bad memories- he had turned out to be very abusive both physically and emotionally. I feel relieved by his leaving. The only problem I have and one that’s causing me tears of pain is the fact that I wasted the best part of my life for him. I wasted the best of me for a wrong person. He enjoyed the best of me that he didn’t deserve at all. Now I don’t feel worthy to be with any other man again because I look in the mirror sometimes and wonder if there’s anything good left in me to offer another man… I lost it all for a wrong man😥😥😥😭😭😭😭😭

May 25, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

The Bible says your words can produce life or death.When you say you’re worthless, you can’t love yourself again.Bitterness begins to pursue you.
Loving yourself its your responsibility to be happy with your life.
If God loves you and He blesses you the same day He created you.Genesis 1:28.
Be the person you see in the mirror.
Stop focusing on the past events and begin to imagine how destiny is brighter than today.
Stop comparing yourself with others/envy someone else’s life.
Remember its never too late to be who you are created to be.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Am so sorry for what you’ve been through.

You need to know that he is the one who left you and your babies.

He is the bad one a coward who beats up defenseless women. Even a blind man can see that he is the toxic one.

Thank God he left 😊 now you can dust off and start a fresh. And you are still WORTHY of love darling and immense happiness.

Don’t let your past dictate your future.

Keep trusting God He will see you through. He is faithful.

Move on and don’t look back.

Stay positive and speak life and good things in your life. Leave the negativity in the past. You are STRONG to have endured all that ❤❤

Hugs 😘

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Dear sister, now you are growing the fact that you feel that way shows that you are much alive, stand up shake off the dust and focus on your children they are the treasure you have, carry yourself and think highly of yourself you will wonder how others will respect you including men, don’t rush to a relationship for now##fight fight fight👊👊👊

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Every cloud has a silver lining. His leaving means a new beginning for you. Start by loving yourself . You are only 39 and you have a whole life ahead of you. Your greatest responsibility right now is your children. Take time dont rush into a new relationship or you could get hurt again even before the old wound has healed .Appreciate your new found peace. May God strengthen you.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Now guys who have faced such irritating situation ,I advice you to stay positive on ur thoughts and accept what has happen and move on koc living with it can cause stress and I urge all that needs to get married that u don’t have to be married by someone whom you know he will not provide in your future..don’t just look at today provision only but extend.To ladies facing such you just move out and husle don’t rely on him alone.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Settle down with your kids and life will continue. Better being single and having peace than being in a stressful marriage just pleasing the public. Your God given rib is around the corner.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

dear mum live peace with the past and never regrate in life everything in life happens with areason….

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Please don’t entertain that kind of thinking,you are beautiful, special, loving and alot More than that …. doesn’t mean if he never appreciated who you are other will not …. You never lost anything you got beautiful kids …….. Try to talk it out and don’t let yourself fall into depression

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Stop crying cx that one can’t help, you are fearfully and wonderfully made, you are a strong woman no regrets getting children at earlier age is not the problem you can manage all, with God everything is possible trust in Him

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:27

Never look down apon uaself,yes most of them do waste our time BT si wote.Trust in uaself that something good is going to come ua way

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