Confession #667
So I had this dude,we met in high school and I was in form 3 and him form 4 back in 2017. We were good the first and probably the second.
We never had sex but the rest we did,
It was in and out relationship like breaking up and getting back together, tht was 2019,we broke up almost 3 tyms.
I was not ready to have sex and he always said I want things to go my way
2019 after his birthday I took a gift for him, we went to his friends house, we ate and his friend left, so it was just two of us
He wanted us to have sex on his friends chair and since I was not comfortable with it I said No
He got mad again saying I only want things to go my way
He gave me push upto stage and off I went
He ddntt call the next few weeks or texted and wen he came back online he said it couldn’t work and he left
It felt like he wanted to only have sex and left after I said No… Now he is calling and texting me persistently.
You are really lucky and clever let the dude go, if you open those legs of yours you will get hurt cz that’s all he cares about sex.
Who told you sex keeps men,maze your not fare ,,,only that you don’t love him,,,if you truly love ,,that courage y kurefuse kumpa huezi pata..s****y he is not yours,,maybe there is that thing that makes you not to bed,,
U r just like me here kuna dem tulimada nae 4th 2017 ,,,nkampendaa yngu yote mi kupata job that was 2018 sep ,dem akaenda nai thats wen my rltnshp was ruined ,,,mpaka sai hua anatext nkiangalia tu but I just still love her nampa tym hdi vle ntkua settle perhabs ndo ntamtafute …so ntkuadvice just give him time agrow up
Stand your ground. Sex is not a ticket to marriage. Let him find sex anywhere. If you are honest, make him see your point. Stop being so intimate only to leave him with hanging feelings. He is a human being for crying out loud and he has feelings. Don’t light a fire that you can’t extinguish. Hio ni maoni yangu tu
Sex is for the reasonable age nd responsible and as at now u posses the two just enjoy life but b careful on STIs nd pregnancies ..heartbreak na marriage u are still young to think of a future enjoy ur youth carefully
stand yur ground vn respect yur values.. if yur price value is lowest bind anybody will trespass on yu n leave. yu chose what yu want
If you are not ready for sex please stop lying to the boy. It is like going to a dinner everyday without eating or going to church without prayers or going to a bar without drinking. You want to stay a virgin just don’t have a relationship. I had a girlfriend who did not want to have sex and we dated for three years. The end is always worse especially for the boy.
I advice u to leave love and run away from it don’t look back coz we have exprience we have bin damaged beyond repair dont open your legs because the day u will open this man will release spam and it will form a nuclear warhead and your virgina will enlarge and the same hole he used he will deny u and ur lfy wil be destroyed
He is not after relotionship but instead sex. To men sex and relationship are different things. To me, that man is after sex from you… He does not love you. Be careful….I suggest you leave that man and look for a better person before things turn to worse.
In This Case The Guy Lvs U But The Guy Is Being Pressured By Friends To Hv Sex With U.You Knw Wht To DO If Ur Nt Ready 4 Sex Stop Having Relationships Til Ur Ready Coz U Cannot Avoid Sex In A Relationship Coz This Is A Lublicant Of It