Confession #520
Ten years back i was married to a kiambu lady. By then i was an accountant in a big company.
I was dismissed later on. My wife started disrespecting me until i gave up and let her go.
I was later reconsidered in the same company by the management after experiencing alot of losses. Was my wife came to know about it through her friends. She once dared to visit me but i told her to bring her parents before we talked anything. She came with her mother and started pleading for her return. I told her mother point blank that i was not interested to take her. I also told her that if she wanted me to stay with her daughter she could have enquire the problem immediately her daughter went home with her belongings. They went back home desperately. It was early last year when i decided to remarry. I married a lady of my choice but the problem is am told she is visiting my wife when am not around. She is even threatening her with death. Was my wife in question went away with two kids who do not even want to see me. Mind you am a hot tempered man.
What should i do to stop her coming?
If not am seeing myself rotting in jail very soon.
Cant you relocate to a new residential area n also report her alleged threats to police…
Pole! You need to involve wazee and also the Area chief, She need to be summoned.secondry ,
If you can relocate the better
Before relocating call her in presence of administration n Atleast her mom or any relative warn her n put it clearly incase of anything,relacate
Let us assume u relocate ….and booom she finds where u are staying …are u going to move from place to place bcoz of her….kiulizi tu
Do you have 2 kids with your first wife or what did I hear?plz relocate to a different place with high security.Report death threat to the nearest police station then plz take care of your innocent kids.suport them with food,shelter and clothing.Pay their school fees.Lets your separation not affect your kids.They are too young to undergo stress and frustrations.Try to control your tempers.Put in mind that you can be sued by children’s department.All in all pray to God to help you and learn to forgive
Sorry for the pain she is causing you but she is the mother of ur two children, that’s your blood dude and nothing can change that.. First relocating is out of questions as in that’s running away from a problem that can catch up with you later.. Let her be summoned and warned of any trespasses in ur premises once and for all..otherwise easy maintain peace at all cost ur new wife needs u. .goodluck bro
A women with money u have to relocate n report case of intimidation make sure u are safe
Mr man hasira hasara in this you need a lot of wisdom stick to your current wife about the other tell your wife to alert you immediately when she comes, take her to the authority immediately with enough evidence again tell your wife not to fear you are with her life must continue.
The new wife should protect her territory this other woman go to the mom and make them know that it’s over,lead the life you want or else they’re out to disorganize you
You are an idiot if you’re asking for an advice over this small issue you would have not have called her after she went.avoid her completely otherwise utakuwa marehemu hivi karibuni
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When something like this happens, ask yourself first what you could have done to make her leave.
Am also surprised you did nothing to get your kids back even when your wife came back for a reunion.
Why don’t your kids want to see you? Is it because of your hot temper? Does this mean that you could have also contributed to your wife leaving? Does she work? How were your children being taken care of?
Did you officially divorce your wife before marrying again? From my understanding you seperated yet you’ve married. That is why this woman is threatening your wife because
1. She feels insecure and jealous
2. She does not want competition when it comes to sharing your wealth.
Stay woke because this woman could even harm your children
And if you haven’t realised already this new wife has no respect for you. Why should she take matters into her own hands and visit your wife’s home before informing you. Hawa ni wale huuza kila kitu kwa nyumba when you are not around and leave y
First thing get an order from the courts restricting her from anywhere near your compound if it’s not a rented area ati you can move that will help
Plz first report the case of threatening the life of your wife.Second warn her on coming to your home nomatter what and if she tries let her be rested by police.
Keep her off she is after money but look for ways of helping your kids
make a report to your nearest police station together with nearest nyumba kumi elders. inform her mother, the nearest police station to her mother together with her mother’s place nyumba kumi elders.