We had a relationship with my sweetheart but like 4 months now I travelled abroad we since then we were communicating very well but one month back there was no communication when I call he usually tells me he is busy then last week I got a post on his fb posted his while he is holding a girl I felt to die when I called him he told me he was in a party and he couldn’t be able to stay alone means that he is not dating that girl but they are just friends am stressed now what to do advice me pliz
May 24, 2020 |
Such irresponsible men please, do away with them,they don’t deserve you. Wait for a man who will not disappoint you,if he need sex and loves you so much,he will sit and be creative how to play under water carefully till you are back just for the case of love and the friendship you people have. Just take it easy and move on. Don’t think or cry so much,give him space he will come back begging and by then,it will be too late to love him. That love will fade away!,I used to love mine so so so much,he was like my baby,now even if he cry the whole tank I don’t feel it!he always block and unblock me but we are moving on very well who cares the h**l he is going through?it’s his decision and he had very normal sences making them !!!!! Some men can’t think twice if I were you I could have investigated just to be 100% to convince your soul to move on,and if it’s true my dear wake up and move on.never look back even if it will hurt you. Such people don’t deserve good women!!!
Just friends then that friendship will result to something else maybe u could to find out why such drastic change from him by t as it is now he is no longer thinking about u maybe u give a break then uone if he will he will respond and if he doesn’t jua uko alone but pole
Due to the distance between you, there’s nothing you can do about it. Even if he denies a million times, at the end the truth will come out. Don’t stress yourself. If he was meant for you, no one will take him. Otherwise expect anything from him
Sielewi why you are stressed mammy.. you left .. you are far… Fimbo ya mbali haiiiuuii nyoka. He could be just having fun now that you are not around to sort him but you need to agree on whether you are to keep the relationship or break up.. managing long distant relationships is a skill.. not easy.. it starts with dealing with insecurity. Allow him to catch strokes lest u feel cheated on .
It’s already done there, don’t be lied that they are just friends… If you will not get back soon, there is high possibility that your relationship will come over but if you will get back soon, you can still solve the issue
Nawee tafuta wako abroad, ivo ndivo wanakuanga hata ukienda ushangu wiki moja anakuanga ashapata mwingine, move on with your life n ka niwako utampata
In today’s world, long distance relationships are tricky, to survive you only need to assume that things are okay and live your life, till you meet is when you continue from where you left
Make yourself also busy… focus on what took you there…mwisho ataimba wimbo was Stella huko airport..asap
When you say relationship i assume it’s not marriage means dating??
Does he think of you as his sweetheart as well because from your post seems like he was too thrilled you left the country. Obviously he doesn’t feel the same Way you feel for him.
Forget about him. His bed is being kept warm by someone else. He cannot be trusted and he is not loyal plus he’s a liar. He is all the things you do not need in a relationship… .
DISHONEST
DISLOYAL
UNTRUSTWORTHY
Ps: Long distance relationships are for those who value each other. Period
The question is not “who is wrong ?” But “what is wrong? My sister distance is a killer to many relationships…I don’t mean it’s done but talk to him ,ask him if the long distance relationship is fit for him ..usidanganywe eti we have good men, that’s a language used by girls not ladies .every man you will meet will have a unique weakness though there those who are weaker than others ..but four month bado hamjajuana.. relationship take sometime before you get fixed to each other..
That’s the girl behind his coldness on you. He didn’t want to tell you directly that he had moved on. He instead posted that so that you can use your brain. Move on with your life girl. Long distance relationship rarely works.
Sorry 3mths n thy guy has started mishaving,plz usichimbie kabuli juu ya penzi.Just move on wth life,he loves u no more,bear thz ulcers,depression,hbp etc.Are really.