Confession #611

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We had an argument about infidelity sometimes back only because his sister told him that I had posted a photo with a male friend inside a vehicle😭😭The guy is truly a male friend like the one you have you only share ideas,solve each others problem nothing else.😙😙I explained to him who the guy was and he was okay but when he went upcountry he was fed with wrong information which made him angry towards me.We met and talked abt the issue and he requested me to apologize to his sister niwaambie what was happening so juzi the sister calls him kumwambia I scolded her instead of apologizing🙄🙄.I apologized for a mistake not done since I love the man.It got hot until I decided to end things with him since he sides with the sister without knowing the two sides of story.
I forwarded the message of apology to him and asked him to show me where I scolded that ghurl…he went mute…
Some in-laws are devils🙄🙄🙄
He says if I can’t get along with his family then we are wasting time…he would kill for his sis.

May 20, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Have you seen your mother will a male best friend? Where did you get that from?

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Am not supporting your man but how can you set a fire on your head by posting a male friend leave alone male friend hata selfie ishike your fellow passenger shue jamaa atazooom the pic acha tu.men r jealousy my frend

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

mtu pekee anafaa kua na male friend ni bwanako,nini ilikufanya upost mwanaume mwingine mkiwa pamoja na unajua kabisaa uko na bwana,put yourself in his place how will you feel uone bwanako abroad amepiga picha na mwanamke ndani ya gari na amekuoa.infact I like his concerned caring sis mwenye hataki bibi ya brother ake adanganye kwenye ndoa.hapo hakuna advice if indeed you loved him this much ungeogopa kujiinvolve na male friend.ulijidunga mwenyewe huu mwiba

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

“The guy is truly a male friend like the one you have,you only share ideas, UNDERLINE ; solve (each others problem) and nothing else.which are these problems kama sio mpaka za kimwili? u cant convince me that he’s not your MWK.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

If I were in your shoes my dear I would move on.are you in a marriage or some kind of a prisoner???? Men must learn to accept I would rather have a male as my best freind than have a lady whose the only constructive thing you will discuss is pure gossip .who taught Africans that when you’ve a relationship with another guy apart from your bae there’s something fishy going on?????

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

You really did mistake for posting the photo with opposite sex.if you are really serious to keep your marriage intact try to reach out to the sister of your husband n explain to her the truth to gain her trust so that you can save your marriage.not everyone is perfect don’t follow negative advice cause the devil is a whisperer and a liar.it’s always good to be polite n honest when you are giving your part of the stories.best of luck

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Madam having male friends is not a big issue, the issue is the things you do with them. Taking the photos is not a big issue, the issue is what you do with the photos. How do you go on posting them! Madam relationship are to be protected. Handle your relationship with care.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

My Question To You Is Have You Ever Heard Your Father Or Mother Having A Female Bestfriend Or Male Bestfriend.!? If Not Then Wacha Upuzi Iyo Unayo Ati My Bestfriend. My Bestfriend Tanye. Hehehe.. Your In-laws are Not There To Sooth Your Ego They Are There to Protect their Brother So Don’t For A Second try To Make Him To Ever Ati To Choose Between You And the Siblings You Will Loose.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

First of all I would not be ok with a friend of my womanz who is a Male coz I have never heard of search a thing a Male bestfriending a lady and nothing is going on between them you better get married to that guy or stop waste that mans lifetime, and what he has in his mind I exactly this

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

If at all younposted a photo I blame you. Remember You have your partner (boyfriend) to solve your Problems and help you making decisions, so why are you going for a male bestie, if you are not ready to date that man don’t blame him, it’s either you date him faithfully or date your best friend. Gaining trust once lost is very difficult

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Where things aren’t working well move out,stop wasting time with somebody who doesn’t value and consider you as a first priority in his life,forgiveness is a simple way of proving irrelevant doubt’s,my sister you are beautiful and any man can admire to have you has a life partner in life,switch the music lyrics off and tune another nice song to play.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Nyinyi wote ni hamjitambui. Kwanza ghurl for girl??? Hiyo tuu, bado inafaa uchungwe and watched kama paka na maziwa. Second; Best male friend never tell any man. Kama mnafanya mambo nyinyi fanyeni tu but msipatikane. That’s a story very few pple can relate to unless u guys are very mature and principled. Though from the word “ghurl” hata mm nmekushukuuu. Third; huyo bf wako na dadake wachana nao until they realize a brother cannot marry the sister. Though pia the sister can be right. I cannot take sides… Wewe mwenyewe decide.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Infact you have no respect to your man imagine if it was your man who posed for a foto with a woman inside a car and proceed to post it on social media it could not only had embarrassed you but also your entire family and friends infact your mannerless

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

The solution can only be between you and him, not on this platform. We’ll give you all the attention you need here but we cannot reconcile you with your guy. If he’s not taking the apology there’s nothing much you can do about it. You either move on, have him counselled, or uende kwa mganga. Ni hayo tu

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

There can never be a pure friendship between opposite sexes always rem that because mwanamme ata akuanzie wapi with some funny c**k and bull stories of being just friends, he will at long last just end up between your legs and the more time you spend together, the more you get used to his nonsense and before you know it ashakupiga kuni. Remember in relationships we have these two words that go hand in hand.
1. Is honesty, honesty give birth to Trust.
2. Is trust, trust give birth to Love. And I’m sure you cannot do anything bad to person you truly claim to love and this is contrary to what you did. Don’t pass blame on the sister in-law for informing her brother of what you were doing now that that you have been found out because photos were in the public domain for everyone to see and that says about you as someone who’s already in a relationship.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

1. Know family boundaries.
2. Keep your track and know what you want.
3. Don’t mix issues.
4. Don’t please others forgetting yourself.
5. You more than anyone.
6. Never argue with a sick dog.
7. Life is a journey, we learn and discover as we match to our destinies…

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

You’re not telling us the real truth. As a man I can’t be comfortable seeing my wife posting pictures with other man. Where did you get the courage to post a picture with other man? There must be something that made you post the picture.

If it were me hata singeargue na wewe, ungekanyaga frame mapema. And stop dragging her sister into the mess you created for yourself. She was only a whistle blower, and I know you hate her for that.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

My sister avoid sharing those photos regardless of who that man is because you’re making your man insecure and moreso if he is in distance, also try to avoid quarreling with in laws at all, for know give him time and apologize to him and his sister too. Love will cost you

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

First u r useless. Why post the photo? r u a teenager? si umeoleka?. U strtd the ruins 2 ua hse sinc unajua stand ya bwanako towards the family. Secondly, tru if u cnt ft in the fmly u r mrrd; th changanya miguu na mchanga. U were married not 2 dissunite

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Enda tu kwenu. How can a reasonable man trust a woman who post pictures of her with other men inside a private car? I don’t blame the sister, wewe ungeona wife ya bro wako akifanya hivo could you trust her? Wewe hauna material ya kuwa wife. Kaa tu na mama yako

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

He is coward.
He will never face you.
Will be using his family to solve his problems.
Look for aman,drop that boy like hot pan.
Before you become baby mama to him.
Thank Me later.
Like Really?
Who does that?
Sanitize and focus woman.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Stop fooling your self. He should be on your side and protect you. If not let him marry his sister. I had sister in-laws like you. One day the older sister was kicked out by her husband and she came into our house. When I gave birth, she was jealousy of the things my husband bought our child. She claimed that he should buy for her kid too. Things heated up until one day claimed that she owe my ex husband 20k way back in college which he has refused to refund her. She decided to auction our households to recover her money. That’s where I moved in. I threw her outside plus all her siblings. Now I became the topic of the year. After a while my ex husband started accusing me that I should have let her do whatever she wanted and leave in peace. I told him to go and marry his sister. I also called the sister and told her to marry her brother. When his father called asking me why I’m insulting the lady, I told him that your daughter and son are perfect match and they should marry each other,

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

Does your mom have a male bestie, if yeees have one.. If not you should also stop being close with other men, especially if you’re married

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

You blew it up yourself, the sister was just caring for her brother to not to get in the wrong hands…the picture posted had a meaning maybe it meant that you’re ready to move on with new people or maybe be it showed how you can be disrespectful and unfaithful…the truth can’t defend you only another good lie can but that ain’t the solution, put yourself in shoes and judge the situation, would you have trusted your own blood sister or someone who doesn’t show 100% loyalty?

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

love is jealous. Why would you think that your husband would be comfortable with you hanging around some other b*****d in the name of a male friend? Now find a way of reuniting with UA hubby and if given a second chance never put uaself in a public display that could raise suspicions btwn you and your better half as well as members of your social circles!

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

I support the man….let him run as fast as possible….away from you.Your cheating on your husband n that’s final….A woman is somebody who leaves the whole her family,brothers,sisters n all her relatives to come stay with you the husband….what assuarence do you have as the husband that she can’t leave you for another man…?

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

U posed in a car,took photos n posted it…..How did it get there kwanza….
Some Women!!
And u need advice that u are innocent…
That’s infidelity already…
Case closed… unafaa kufungwa…

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

My sister admit you were wrong Men are naturally jelous so this thing my male best friend wachia wazungu,huku ni kenya,je ingekuwa wewe uskie hivyo?simple nyenyekea.For sister inlaw she was proctecting his brother the same your siz would for you.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

What are you doing with the so called “Male friends”? If at all you’re serious with your relationship desist from the company of the so called “Male friends” this means you’re serving two masters at a time which definitely you will love one and hate the other, in most cases the so called “Male friends” are always there to spoil n not to make n the choice is yours you either decide to make your relationship work or to keep your so called “Male friends” and spoil your relationship.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:25

My sober advice when it comes to issues concerning siblings to your husband or boyfriend or girlfriend please don’t try to prove your innocence their word is final. So kanyaga kubwa kubwa. You will get a good man who protects and defends his wife and family. Huyo wacha angangane na sister yake bado hajaoa your one among the many to come to that home. WWF Royal Ramble 😂😂😂😂

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