Confession #483
We have been married for the past six years now. Hubby is the only male among three women making them four. We have three bedroom self contained and my mother in law join us when our marriage was about two yrs. Later one sis in-law joined with her twins then later another sis in-law joined when she was pregnant. So o was living with mother in law and two sis in-laws. The third sis in-law comes once in a while. I didn’t like it thou but I managed with them till I got pregnant n left o my mum place.
My husband realized I wasn’t comfortable going back to his home again so he rented a two bedroom for us. I was very happy I now have my privacy, not that I didn’t like my husband’s families No but I’m an Adventist which makes cooking and other things difficult for me whiles with them. I still pay them visit thou and my mother in law also does same. Jxt recently my husband was talking to her mom on phone n I realized he was very annoyed, I asked him after n he said her mother wants to come n stay with us in the new two bedroom bcos they are crowded in the other three bedroom house.
Hmm I told my husband I won’t allow this but the my mother in law called me saying I shd plead with my husband for her bcos he didn’t agreed to let her cm stay with us. I jxt didn’t know wat to tell her,I like her but I also want my privacy. Why can’t she stay away from us. I’m kinda confused.
May 7, 2020 |
I think my brother is entertaining danger or doom. He has been good enough to support his mom n sisters but he needs to be very firm again.
Dear wife, if you continue playing nice, you will be the only person crying at the end. Be firm
The above was my comment i comment again f***k she a witch m***rf***r. She wanna spoil yo marriage f**k her 23456789 and 10. I feel better now. I very straight in dealing with such issues i cant be in you shoes be so nice while i know the consequences. Let me meditate ohooooooo!!!!
Oh gosh!! Your husband has to man up for rea, tell your mother in law that sometimes you need privacy that is why you had no problem leaving your house for them, i smell THE BINIGINGING OF THE MOVIE CALLED TROUBLE, funny and not funny 🙂 what if your man dies will you inherit anything kweli. MAN man UP
The 3 bedroom hse is crowded for her and her own daughters??😃
One thing I like about myself is the fact that I don’t mince words..i would have told her outright once she called..but once u haven’t given her a response,she knows u are thinking about it and probably waiting for a favourable response..just allow your husband to deal with..
D3n abayis3m nono??..let her stay there and suffocate in the crowd..
I hope she doesn’t have any hidden agenda. People should have conscience sometimes kakra. Would she be happy if she was in your shoes? Ask her that. Sometimes our husbands really want us to stand our grounds as wives. S****y tell her that your husband told you about and he has already warned you not to meddle, however you can’t disrespect his decision. Period. Make sure he’s aware before spewing anything so that he can defend you if anything should happen.
Hmmmmmmmmm I rented a 3 bedroom to stay with my wife u came and later sermon all ur daughters there. Now I’ve left that place for u and u said u are crowded in a 3 bedroom rather u prefer coming to stay in a 2 bedroom with ur son and daughter in law and a child that to u is not over crowding . Is that not day time witchcraft. )betoto momone ahye wanum na wobue wano wakase wanum b)n. She intentionally called u to put up at a tight corner. She knows u will object that’s why she is asking u to plead on her behalf. Stop her b4 she destroys the marriage 4 u.
This be the kinda marriage I wanted but didn’t get cos I’m married to Osofo and my Moda in law doesn’t like dat even if she wonna visit husby will ask me if I’m ok with her visiting.. Me sef I don’t allow my mom to come visit me rof rof koraa
Buh ur sisters in laws nno don’t they hv huzbans🤔🤔🤔🤔 for them to c*m stay with u…. Witches in sheep clothes 😒😒😒😒… Mtcheeeeewwww
My dear don’t allow her come there ooo haaaa if possible switch off ur 📴 for awhile….. tankew
Madam call her and be like ‘ Maa please I have spoken to him but he still says no’ is better for her to know his son is that one not allowing it than you.
If you open your mouth to say because of your privacy she cannot come. My dear you have an enemy for life.
When it comes to in-laws we use divine wisdom.
You have such a good heart and you have been so much patient. It feels good knowing you love his mother. Your husband needs to stand up for you, you can’t be subjected to such a living condition again. Tell his Mom you will try to talk to him then tell the husband “babe, you gotta step up as man, if you still want sex in the kitchen😋”
Just tell her okay… Then let your husband know you won’t be comfortable.
It is better she is denied by her son than by you. So after talking to your husband, you call her back and say you tried your best but your husband still stands by his decision not to let her come stay with you.
Madam no matter what don’t let her come and stay with you people jeeez, you need your privacy but as always a mother can forgive her child but not an in law so don’t let it ever seem like you also don’t want her around.
Pathetic poor people having so many people live in a house too small.