Dating one like Her is in my bucket list.
Where can I find Her.

They usually have a string of dudes they're shagging with on the side. Most former exes, one night stands, friends and all in between

For one that hoped for anything and got messed up, how did y'all figure yourself out of the mess?

I hate such kind of ladies. Never dated one. But i have seen one messing up my friend. The dude can't even drink in peace.

I had one chic with BPD, i had to let her go. But it was not easy. I could not handle it. She was all over me. She wanted to hang out with me all the time.

Since i had an ex, and we had not gone so much into our relationship, i just told her that my ex says she's pregnant. And i played a guilty father who cannot abandon his kid. That is how i ran away! She had a suicide scare, but i just had to end it before it got so far.

To reduce here suicide tendency, we organized with a friend to be her FWB. That worked. Coz the other guy was clear it is not relationship.