Confession #1222
Hey guys. I have been in love with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now. Everything has been going on perfectly. I love her so much and I have never been with another woman since falling in love with her. My childhood life had some shortcomings. My dad died when I was still 6 months old. My mum then remarried to another man as a second wife. She then went and left us in Naivasha with her husband and the first wife who had kids. My man went back to work in Kakamega. Our step dad and mum passed me and my twin bro through h**l. It was 7 years of beatings, hunger and all sorts of inhumane acts. We were still kids so voicing our grievances was a no way. This life has come to affect my relationship now. I had anger issues and used to assault my girlfriend whenever we got into arguments. She was bearing with me every time we had a fight. Last week I happened to slap her and it affected her left ear. I didn’t intend to hurt her and make sure her ear loses sense. She decided to leave me and her family has strongly advised her to go kabisa. I really love this girl and I just can’t imagine my life without her. I can’t fall in love with anyone else. I am trying everything I can to get back together with her including calling and convincing her dreaded mum. It’s really killing me since my brain can’t happen to function properly with the thought that she could go. I know nilikosa but am so sure this period will shape my anger management moving forward coz I can’t afford to lose her. I am emotionally paralysed sai. I even go kwao and stay outside their gate the whole day just to get the chance kumwongelesha to no avail. It’s really killing me. Please advise me
November 10, 2020 |
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Let her be . If indeed you love her . Don’t you think you’ve hurt her enough to even claim you love her
There’s no reason for a man to beat up a woman !what you did is unforgettable. Let the girl be
Ask for forgiveness na umpende vile inafaa. Am sure you can undergo change
Omba msamaha ndugu kwa wazazi wake manake wewe umelaaniwa..wanawake huchapwa kweli ? Hamna mapenzi hapa
you are an animal a killer and a fool
simple. Stop beating her up and start loving her more.
If you really love her, then stop being a violent person. Change and let her know you have become a better person. Then ensure you love her the right way from there onwards
There is nothing that can’t be solved. Get help with your problem and then ask for her forgiveness. Treat her right from there onwards
If I were you ill be somewhere asking God for forgiveness because you are a bad person a killer just let the girl be .how many times have you beaten her is she your daughter?stupid man
Insults won’t take anyone anywhere. An amicable solution is the main focus. Be cool
mlete hapa nikudinyie askie poa
… For two months i thought may be no confessor admin work on the system
Is the system broken cant confess at all wrote a paragraph failed to publish
if you truly love her, respect her decision to break up with you . Even if she stayed I don’t think she would be happy and go to the therapist for councelling.
Go sort out you’re issues first because you were toxic to her and it’s good she left it probably would’ve gotten worse for her. Please get help.
I am unable to post here. what is the problem
Me too. I can only comment here. No wonder there haven’t been any new confessions for a while now.
Something is wrong here. I am unable to post a new confession.
I understand u bro! And maybe u really love her but the fact that u beat her tells me u dont love her bad enough to stay with her!! What u need is to REALLY LOVE HER BAD ENOUGH!!.. so that u cant bear to see her in pain no matter what the cause of her pain! Also u need to see psychologist or else it will be war later
You should forgive yourself and find peace. Then ask her for forgiveness and if she is kind enough to forgive you, just change for the better and b gentle with her
Wewe ni mnyama wachana na huyu mschana wa mtu .warembo hupendwa sio kuchapwa takataka hii
Let the girl be just stay away from her
Let me ask you why do you beat her
Talk to her ajue you are sorry and that you will never hit her. Then build a better relationship full of love and not violence
You were so wrong to hit her regardless of your past violence experience. Anyway seems like you really love her. Just ask for forgiveness and never hit a woman tena
Talk to her and promise a new future. Hitting her is wrong but I know maybe there is more than what meets the eye. Forgive yourself and then be a better lover for her
YOU ARE FOOLISH. LET HER HAVE ALL THE HAPPINESS SHE DESERVES .
Really? Why do you beat her?
Truthfully I don’t care if you love her but the fact you hurt her you should stay the f**k away from her
Love is not pain and never will be
Wait did you just say you love her? This is not love .love is not pain if I were her I only run n not look behind.
Sit down, talk to her and start a new chapter. Looks like you love her so it doesn’t have to be hard for you to change. Wish you luck
Let the girl be .you are a killer
Did you gave birth to her ? too bad
Hahaha unajitoa machungu na yeye ama? So inhuman
you will kill her because of your stupidity
Sasa tukusaidie aje vile utamuua ama shenanigans wewe
You are an animal how could you beat someone that you love mercilessly to an extent of damaging her ears man that is not love .thunder will strike you !!!!
So you know you have a problem and you are not working on it ?you went ahead and spoil her ear !go to h**l ! Utagonga mtu siku moja na uozee prison nugu wewe
Do you really love her ? Pls gal wherever you are ruuuuuuun!
Why do you beat her we only beat our children
Go seek counselling first before you decide to get back with her
And there’s no reason for a man to beat up a woman no matter what if you’re mad then go take a walk not beat her