I am really confused. I live with my mom and my younger siblings, my mom is a kind of a person that the moment u complete school u find something to support yourself.
Hmm, I’m a teacher in a private school, I met this guy in 2017 and we started dating, he is into printing of dresses,flyers,caps.
My only problem is I’m a very emotional person and very shy as well. Ever since I started dating this guy I don’t recall the day he gave me a single cent. But this guy always want something from me. Sometimes things can be so hard for me but I can never ask him for a penny.
The slightest thing I do he gets angry, he won’t talk to me for weeks, before he will talk to me he will demand money and expensive gifts from me..
Last time he told me he needed money from me to expand his business, the moment the month ends, this guy will start talking me like I owe him, if I don’t get it for him it means breakup. He did that to me for over 6months..
One day I gathered courage to ask him for money, he told me he doesn’t have.
But when my friends ask him for money he will give it to them. He gave my friend money to buy expensive clothes, another time too he surprised my friend on her birthday with expensive gifts, I never received such gifts from him.
This is the same guy who has 2 mobile phones while I had a faulty phon bu then.. He gave one of his phone to my friend bcos she requested it on her birthday. He never apologizes even when he is wrong. When u don’t call him he will also not call you.
Now things are hard and we are home, ever since the pandemic started, I fell sick and I asked him for money he said he doesn’t have.
I know that loving someone takes h**l lots of us to a point where its difficult to let go. She doesn’t care for and u are an independent lady… Why don’t move on stress free and live a happy life. God time is the best dee.. And this isnt.
He doesnt love you. He just using you