Confession #745

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I met a man on facebook 3 months ago. He has a 7 month kid. He openly told me about it, before we could meet the lockdown come. We have been talking and the relationship is going on well except that he is short tempered. Here now comes the problem he told me he is an army and also have another business that isn’t operating due to corona effect. The way he described his life I thought he is a stable person but later on I realized he always claim to be broke to a point of saying mtoi ni msick but sina doh za kumpeleka hosi. All the time telling me the difficulties he is passing coz hana doh. We are planning to meet after lockdown but I have a feeling alinidanganya about his jobs. For real angekua kwa army angekua ever broke? Kwani hawalipwi? Should I meet him? Bearing in mind he claimes to come from a rich family?

June 3, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Anyone who uses the strength of money, wealth or riches in the introduction is an opportunist. He is seeing business where you are seeing relationship.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

The problems with us some ladies men’s wametusoea so if he wants to win your heart anajifanya ako na pesa why don’t we show then we are not so interested with what they have

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Dadangu huyo nimuogo anatumia mtoto ili umuone uruma mm Kuna jamaa kutoka Mombasa alikua hivio kulialia hako broke Na storrry za uogo alifika mahali pa kuniomba. Pesa ya rent eti ajalipa Hao three month naako nawatoi nikamwambia Sina pesa ata mm nataka pesa nilipie mtoi Wangu Shule alikimia hivio hakuwai nichat Tena nami Nika mblock sitaki ujinga

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

pngne aliona akiku shw hana kazi uwez mkubalia akaona beta akwambie yy n army ndio umukubali ucjarbu ku meet unaeza enda umupate n mzee wa 60 na pcha iko prfile c yake n ya mtoi wake zote

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Don’t worry at all,kila tym akikwambia about his financial problems we mjibu tu pole aki utakuwa sawa tu…uone ka atakuwa anaridhika na hiyo jibu ama atajam,akijam ujue huyo ako after your money not your love.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

when will you learn? Don’t u knw that I can take a photo of another, upload n use it to convince you bora uingie box so he’s done the same infact you are Lucky you were not coned

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Do meet him to prove your self ❌✔️coz wengi wa wanaume wametoka family zimejiweza wako na shida na kugawa pesa zinaishanga na wiki ya Kwanza nasi kupenda kwao

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

If he is a soldier always ready for any eventuality who takes care of the baby.yes anyone can get broke once in a while but not always.shine your eyes earlier

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

From your words am sorry to say so but somehow you seem to have been carried away by the man’s “job” not his words.Where’s the kid’s mother?Is relationship nowadays about kulipwa ama job,why does you sound shaken by the man’s being broke?Go meet him in person and get his full story maybe he wants to know your reactions on those issues he touched.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Some questions comes in my mind;why is he broke and associates himself with good job? where is the mother of the child?If the mother of the child died after a period of 7months it’s too early to decide to marry if the guy Loved his diseased wife plz.What was the course of hrer death if was the case?May he might the Couse of her death? Continue communicating but be extra careful.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

It can be he’s pretending but at the same time it can be true he’s that person he told you. Sometimes even those in porshy jobs do lack too. Maybe this person took a loan and the remaining pay is too little to last him and the kid a month. It’s better you try much to empirically find out the reality on the ground. Do not despise someone just because at a given level he’s low….try to assist him at this point of downward trending economy and am sure he will include you in his rise.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Hii shida yote ,ni wa fb ,right? Mlipoanza ndo ujue niwa armed forces uliingia timeline ukaangalia comments watu wanaampa zinarelate na armed forces 😒,huh soma mwanaume,alfu anaeza kuwa akitaka kujuwa wewe Kama unapenda pesa ama ,but still be wise,

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Siz , where is the mother to the kid? Y would one leave such a young baby to aman? Wht abt the medical cover they are given to Catter for the baby’s hospital bill? Scam run for ur dia life.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

If your gut tells you that you should not meet him and that he is lying don’t meet with him.

There are so many red flags here and from a personal experience ( having almost dated an army guy) they are full of lies and pity party. Ni wale watu wa woiye nisaidie bla bla.

And how is he taking care of a 7month old baby??? LIES WHITE LIES. bibi ako hapo tu akikuchat.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Wa fb kanyaga kubwa kubwa,huyo ni muongo,
fb imebeba kila gasia
Kuna mwengine alikuwa na same story kidogo Niko hossy niokolee,Mara sina fare ,
Before alisema ako na kila kitu ni police
Kumbe hata kwa kulala hana analala kwa brother yake,
Mkitaka ku meet ni kwako au kwa maduka, hawananga kitu ni jina tuu na uwongo mtupu

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:33

Social media love gonna just give you heart breaks though some are serious and bare fruits but on your case Apo hakuna light

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Mwizi huyo..some men nowadays…ohh
*Niko na matanga
*Nimesahau wallet
*Nisaidie nitakurudishia kesho
*Mtoi Ni msick (very few are genuine.)
*Nimeshikwa na Askari they are demanding for some cash.
*Nisambazie credo..
*Ikifika endmonth mamake mdogo anaaga…
*Nipeleke out.

Block them …they are not different from the kamiti guys..

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Fanya hivi my sister ,if you want to date the man don’t look at his pocket ,look deep at the hrt,whether he has or not don’t bother yourself.otherwise you’ll get it rough

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Run ata anakuabia ako na mtoto am sorry usiingie kwaio relationship…pia Mimi ilinihapenia akanishow ako na mtoto na make waliachana kumbe anaishi kwao but it was too late nilikuwa nishaa zaa mtoto wake nilipogundua Bibi huishi kwao na ilileta shida please usikubali

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Weeeehh…..reason why I always don’t encourage and still do hate online dating now see yuh are in a dilemma of wat to do……most men like testing their dates so dat they can figure out whether the lady is money driven or she is a person who one can start a new life with or not…… nowadays most ladies like men who are rich nd romantic but after getting one yuh will have to regret for the rest of yuah life bcuz he never disclosed to you that he’s married bt yuh just continue with him even after yuh find out that he’s married only for the man to use you like a puppet …….thn yuh start saying that all men are dogs and if that’s the case then before yuh claim that all men are dogs make sure that yuh aren’t behaving like a bone my fren

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Coming from a rich family doesn’t guarantee one to be rich also, I think the guy must be a drunkard and when you chat he talks anything that comes his way…anyway take care conmen are many more especially this hard times of economic downfall

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Ladies don’t u know the world of today even here in fb some are ritualities looking for who to destroy .be sensitive in spirit all this creatures u see not all r leaving for life but for revenge and destruction

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Sometimes we men fail. Sa mtu hamjaonana umeshaanza kusema shida zako, really, sometimes die like a man, sa huyu akienda date dear carry your transport and some extra for settling the bill

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Most of army men are ever single only few are married but almost all are married,their motto war,women and wine. Be careful when Aman loves a woman, he can even promise to buy you an aeroplane and he doesn’t have a bicycle

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Those people in uniform hulipwa but the next day hana kitu,wanapenda kuombaomba,please run

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Ask yourself where is the mother of the kid,you won’t make it my dear, wachana na mambo ya mtandao.some ppl are something else.dont try! You have your doubts,your heart is in doubt and follow it.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

kitu ya kwanza nimenote about you
1.unataka mtu stable..hutaki kuhustle
2.unafall haraka kwa uongo..but hio ni kawaida ya wavivu
3.7 months kid…kwani hana mama wakupelekea huyo mtoto..
4.kwani haendangi job ..anataka mfanyi kazi ama bibi
kuna vitu mob za kujiuliza kwa hii stori
to me…you are a gold digger but dont meet him hes a liar
nyote wawili mko na shida

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

He told u exactly wanted to hear “am an army man”, women fall for what they hear,men fall for what they see,acha kudanganywa

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

The guy is laying a trap for you. By now you should have known better, a relationship does not start with a guy crying of financial difficulties. He should solve his finances first, and above guys in the armed forces are well paid.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

A 7 month old baby should be breastfeeding and needs a lot of commitments. How is he managing all that with “an army” thing? Just three months, you haven’t met and he is telling you how broke he is? He wants your money.
When he tells you he is at work, video call him and check if he has the uniform. When he tells you he is with the child, video call and see the child.
His reactions will tell you something.
Otherwise, tell him you are from a poor family… better him.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Never joke with fb jokers….If I am not wrong the best responsible, caring & faithful partners are mainly found in public arena such as religious centers,,,learning centers, Businesses centers, working places & above all from God….Never trust social media relationship bcoz you might regret on ur first meet….Others are even conmen and kidnappers

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Ulichezwa, before it’s too late, block him and give your heart and time to someone else.

The starting salary of an army officer is around 50-60k, they have a comprehensive healthcare cover which covers them and their nuclear family. Their pay is not affected by corona virus on whether to be paid or not.

My girl, you are one of the few people who have benefited from corona, coz were it not for it, that man could have used you and left you long time ago.

Next time you meet someone on Internet, don’t be quick to give them your heart. When I was new on Facebook, somebody welcomed me with words that I still remember, and he said, “welcome to Facebook, where people meet, fall in love and divorce without having met”.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Naona utakiweza…Kama mother of a7 month kid hawezi…alifanya Nini hadi akaachiwa mtoi mdogo hivi….when the deal is too good, think twice!😫😫😫😫

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Wanaume sikuhizi wajinga ni pesa anataka kutoka kwako maybe ATA mtoi Hana,,,,,and how sure are you that he is not staying with his baby mama if for sure he has a kid think big gal don’t do something that you will regret later,,,,don’t dwel on his job instead see if he is trust worthy that’s the important thing

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Those lies he only used to lure you uingie box yake which you seem to have. He puts on a side smile somewhere all the time you talk. Wake up girl!

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Don’t love somebody because of his title or riches, most ladies they love these titles ;soldiers, Doctors, Engineers, and Businessmen. Conmen use these titles to trap our innocent ladies. Thank GOD that he saved you from the hands of that conman through lockdown. Never ever call him again.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Umejivalia ngozi ya kondoo ,kumbe ndani nimbwa mwitu kumbe ndani nimbwa mwitu. Dada watu waongo laxima watu wawe maakini na wale wana deel nao wezangu.kuna fisi nyingi jameni

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Ask me my dia my hubby niwa navy analipwa 26 bt ikifika date 5 Jana any so Kuna uezekano yeye niwa army hawa watu hawanaga pesa Kama mtu hajajipanga army Ni jina tu so usimuhukum just meet with the guy fast

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Vile siku huzi men are robbing women around the globe,i rest my case,if you are not desperate live your happy life alone with no blames and regrets

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Take coution coz somebody who claims he is broke all the time yet employed.but go and visit him to prove what he is upto but don’t give infaster. Mwambie akutumie picha zake akiwa job

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Hey i had a guy who told me that..he ia a army..so i declared and pretended i love him..we started tezting inbox later ..after one day he told me..ako kwa border y kenya n somali her siz amelazwa hosi nimtumie punch he will later pay it double .n alkua annshow bib yke n mtoi walipata accdent wakakufa n even sending me phtos..i never send the money so he said i was after his money coz am not materialistic ..i cant help him.. I just ignored ths men ate conmans heloo..dont forget..about him

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Meet him eye to eye and know him better… He May be pretending to know if you have fallen for his money or Real love.. I know of a friend who told his lady he’s dating online ati yeye ni mtu wa mjengo yet He’s a full engineer.. He lied to test the Lady aone atasema nini.. But from your point of view you loved him coz of what he seems to have not who he is

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Huyo sio army my friend ni jeshi la okofu anakudanganya tu na iso shda zake ili aone kama unaeza muzaidia na pesa so junga

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:32

Kihero pesa tihero jachien

Anonymous
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