Iam highly introverted and this thing I think is affecting my social life, The only place I interact with human beings is when I am at work and on my way back to my apartment from work( I don’t even talk, I just board and alight) then into my apartment.
I spend my weekends inside my bedsitter from friday alone, I don’t even converse with my neighbor, the only time I go outside is when i feel hungry buy food then back to my comfort zone. The only person i converse with maybe once a month is my younger bro who lives miles away from me.
I am not in any romantic relationship because i dread the whole process of approaching girls, I have tried changing but then again i find myself back in my small room comfort zone, I spend my time in the Internet, youtube Twitter e.t.c
Is this a disease? Guys I need your advice, how can i Change
its normal.can you link me to where you are working .am so stressed without a job and having the qualifications .will appreciate most ….you can contact me on 0716165658 for more conversation
No. It's not a disease. Am an introvert too. And we derive power from loneliness. We work best when alone. It is normal, don’t try to fix it. People should fit it or go away.
You dont have to change my friend. God made you an introvert for a reason. I am sure when you try to interact, you feel exhausted, thats because you want to be fake and against go against your nature. Now, use your time to build a r/ship with Jesus because he set you apart from this world.
You are missing opportunities and learning , social life is a health life, interact , make memories enjoy life , its short, no matter what we do memories last , they are worth , very much worth, try living with elders you will see how happy they are when they tell stories etc , i do love that life