Confession #838

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I’ve been married to thz guy n we had 2kids.we separated last year March since then hashugulikii watoi.he remarried n I tew am seeing sam1 who is supporting m n my kids wd everything they even refer him as their Dad n am happy wd him…the problem is my kids birth certificate iko na jina ya my ex husband n since aliwakataa I want to change into my current husband’s name coz he’s ready to have them

June 21, 2020 |
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

My opinion…no need to change. Wheather he accepts them or not he is the father. What if your new partner one day denies them?? You will again change names, to fit the third one??? Unless you have another strong urgument, I don’t see the need to change. My thots though….

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

You can change their names yes. But can you change their blood and give them the blood of the one you find
. You just take care of the children coz the one you are still telling us is still a man after 2 years he will abandon coz the spirit of men abandoning is on you will also change their names

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Madam fanya yote but don’t try changing your kids name juu ya cc wanaume, nobody knows about tomorrow, amekupenda akupende tu, story ya watoto wachana nayo,

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Don’t dare change name important point is that relationship between the kids and the guardian for now.celebrate anniversary of your marriage then give Thanksgiving and glory to God.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

If you change the name now utaishi kuchange just take ur time to heal and rethink of wat will happen if you separate with this other one

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Wacha bana zalia hii jamaa kwanza ndio utasema yesu Ni bwana,Kama ako willing kusaidia na watoi jina n jina tu & there’s no single day atakuwa biological father yy n baba mlezi,bt don’t forget men do change

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Wait till u give him his own kid that’s when ull c a different man in him…changing the names won’t change their blood..theyl still look for their dad later..stop wasting ur time n mind..those r signs of desperation madam..

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

You might keep on changing the names of the kids because marriage is unpredictable but those kids will remain the kids of that man. That’s a fact that you can’t change

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Don’t change no one knows tomorrow n ujue wanaume wanabadlika any time find a job & work hard invest on something that can help ur children on future

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

You are out marriage with kids and you need his help in the name of kids???.kichwa uji wewe. Peana watoi ama walee pole pole. Tuliwajua.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Dont do that,,,,acha watoto wagrow,,at 18 they decide to go to their biological father in which the certificates remain or remain wd ur husband in which case they swear affidavid in court,,,does it if remarry another man u also change birth certificates???

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Don’t try to change anything coz utaleta shida later,,Kama anawapenda kweli wacha awasomeshe then watoto watajinunulia shamba,,,coz huyo ex n babayao,,plz don’t confuse ur children

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Don’t make sunce mistake.utawaharibia watoto maisha hawana hatua.kama anawasaidia wacha asaidie bt sio kuchange birth certificate.Huyo ex ndo baba watoto ata iwe nini.Ama rutisha watoto babayao as simple as that.otherwise utacreat problem.na Tena sio rahisi kuchange.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Don’t change..Human beings are like chameleon…They might change anytime.You never Know.Dont trust him that much hadi unafikia kwenye unataka kuchange majina ya watoi….Ya kesho,hayajulikani,Take care,,And Be warned!!Chunga usije ukachanganyikiwa.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

I am aman and a man is a hunter a woman is a prey,a hunter turgets the wicker part of a prey 2 shoot 4 him 2 have the prey.this guy needs u n he know that the only way 2 own u is 2 solve UA problem of which is OK when he is an angel coz I know human beings in the begining of affairs he will be able even do the impossible things for just 2 prove his hunting tactics.my best advice u can have the man and also change UA children’s name if u are ready 2 construct heaven for that man

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Even if you change the names on a paper you cannot change the DNA.Blood runs deeper than an official document.You cannot alter the course of truth.Marriage is not just an institution to walk in and out of at will.Have you resolved the negative attributes that made your ex leave you? Think about it and build on yourself first before you start thinking of changing those documents.In a few months or years this current hubby will have known you past your veil of beauty.What assurance do you have that he too may not leave you? And if I have read well and understood your statement you are not even married to him yet.Tread carefully and take enough time to know him.Remember you are only separated and not divorced.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

My advice please don’t change the name.let it remain…

Am a victim is now 3yrs since we separated and even if God blesses me with another partner I will never change my 2 sons thea father’s name..
And I will be telling them the truth why am not with thea father…that’s all.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

We endelea kukimbilia wanaume kama ng’ombe inapelekwa kijinjio,utakuja kujuta,we ungefumilia mashida za kwako coz kila binadamu ako na shida zake tena mingi kuliko zako including us in this platform, remember challenge makes person strong and perfect, usipotulia na ufikilie kwa njia mwafaka then utakuja kupata hata mimi nikiwa na wewe na nikupe mimba sijui mtoto utamwita jina la bwana gani?

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Those are just papers ,if he is good to them,he will own them without papers it comes automatic, they will not go back if he treats them well,na Kama unampenda mzalie wawili ata yeye a feel at home.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

dont even try when a man want to marry you he can do anything to win your heart, you just stay with him first for some yrs n see what kind of a man he is then you can agree together

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Just go ahead and change the certificates or you wait a little bit.give the new relationship time

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Act wisely u will come back here claiming umeachwa na ball anga anakumistreat cjui kucheat all men r the same ata wako alkua mzuri akikukatia that’s y u got married

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Soo stupid, ,what if muachane na huyu, if u want to change name’s eka yako or let the birth certificate remain with their dad’s name

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Don’t change the names, let those kids have their true identity, as parents we will go, hao watoto watabaki aje, in case we utangulie

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Nonses has no cure,at first how do u joke with divorce n u have children?ur just thinking that ur happy one day u will be told by that failure to take those kids back to their father!

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

No option madam, you are married to first husband: Option: if you want to change certificates of your children first go to court and see divorce, after divorce seek change of Certificates.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

He is still the dad don’t change the kids birth to someone else’s name not unless you want to do away with the name of the dad birth ikue na kina yako pekee yako kwa jina ya baba ueke x*x

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

A name can’t change anything……. Even if is mad he still remains to be their dad. Wacha mahangaiko and take care of yr kids….. How about you change then the current one vanishes too or deny them when they have grown. Think Big

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Changing it’s not easy though bt what if after you change naye achange ujinga itakuwa kwa nani

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Unashida gani kama utatoa jina yake hapo usiandike jina ya MTU mwingine eka x*x cz ata yeye hujui vle ako tena huyo baba yao n baba yao liwe liwalo

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Mi pia nikijua vile naeza badilisha ama nitowe hiyo jina ikuwe Kama mi ni single mom ,na hate Sana kuona hata hiyo jina pekee

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Madam 1yr only? Naye pia akienda? wait till he proves his worth. 5yrs the least na majina yake yawe backed up na kitu ina benefit watoi kama plot or shamba in ur/their name, kuitanishwa na majina ya baba sio hayamaanishi wameget highway ticket to success.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

hiyo ni uongo take time you can’t change blood he knows we’ll this is not his blood hii mapenzi bado ni moto wait time will come utanza kusema ana treat watoto vibaya wacha hapate yake you will see his tru colour

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Take you time with no hurry. Change first in books and wait learning the man you have. Right know you are see him by leaning on one side.( Postive). Goja ujue weakness za uyo mwanaume nitakuona apa tu again asking for advice.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

According to you , you are not seeking advice, you are already dicided….and let you not be divided, don’t try…utalilia chooni….

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Young lady, men will always be men, the second man u av is nt different from the First one.so take care

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Don’t rush with changing cert, wait kiasi like
Even 5 yrs, you see if the current man is serious ama anangoja umzalie naye pia akuache. Some men are very cunning, ask yourself some quizz , How long did your marriage last? Was it legal? Had he payed for your bride price? If yes, you are likely to get back together..

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Jaribu kubadilisha utakiona cha mtema kuni leave the names as they are you’ve not even got enough time to build trust in ur man how do u even trust him with ur kids bearing his name see ur life and give it not less than 10 years before changing

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

My advice you have one life to life don’t die waiting for someone who is waiting for another person… If he has remarried and not bothered about your children anymore, just move on …about their third name don’t include it anywhere let your kids use their two names and change them later when you have courage to stay forever in your current Union …life happy my dear don’t listen to what people say they have different experience in this life and we all have different fate

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

That won’t change paternity, Kwanza if things change in future, you’ll curse your decision. Those kids have a right to that name, in your eyes you are acting with emotions, this is a very sensitive matter and can cause you issues in future.

Anonymous
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2021-01-13 21:31:36

Start with blood change their fathers blood then u change names akikupenda alikuona n watoi kwanza atakubeba ufala coz anajua akikuacha utachange yake pia

Anonymous
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