Confession #1209
So, I have been dating this guy for 3 years and he was very loyal , loving and didn’t give me any reason to doubt or feel stressed . He sooner became very controlling . He started to beat me up every time our arguements became very hot. I tolerated it for well over the two years . So last week he hit me really hard that I lost hearing in my left ear . I decided that enough was enough . I left him without goodbye and I talked to my family about it . They both supported my departure from the relationship since it was damaging my well being . The guy called in later and told me that it was a mistake he didn’t intend to hurt me . He was crying . He wants me to forgive him. He says he’ll change . I’m really heartbroken because I don’t know what to do . He says he loves me so much and doesn’t want me to go I’m slowly falling for it. But then there’s my family . What should I do ? Get back with him or just move on ?? Please help
November 4, 2020 |
Usiwai Rudi uko…
Will life end if you are not with him ? Move on leave wachana na huyu ni idiot …. lakini unavumilia aje kuchapwa
It’s difficult for two people in love. If she loves him and he loves her, they can go back together and even be happier than before. All depends upon how they understand each other. Trust me ata hizi advises z3nyu hazitasaidia. Watu wawili mwenye hujifunika blanket moja…..?
Please please please move on before its too late
Those people who want her to go back . Would you advise your daughter to go back to being hit after losing her hearing? Would you tell her that a long relationship is rare . Kwendeni huko
I hate anyone who’s supporting this evil . The woman lost her hearing for Christ’s sake and has been receiving beatings . Smh
You can give him a last chance pia. Maybe he has indeed learnt his lesson. Sometimes people change kapsaa. All the best sweetheart
Love yourself love your life and always love your family. There’s no love here move on
next time he will kill you honey just move on he doesn’t love you
Relationships are very hard. People will tell you about ‘better men out there ‘ but I can assure you every man comes with their own package of problems. No man is perfect. All I can advise you sister is that those who work on their relationships and build the loopholes always stick together for long compared to those who run from relationship to relationship because of different situations, A very common thing and problem in this generation. Let your boyfriend change. He seems to love you. Let him work on his problem and he will change probably and be a better person. Running away means you may just be going to land on another unkown problem which you may have to deal with anyway. But mending this may be once and for all. Am a councilor by the way. You can reach us out @ ELITE Psychological Counseling and Wellness Services-Hamida
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Hope you will be okay
True. Look both sides of the coin. Gauge his positives, love and desire to change for the better. He may become a better person and make your love life worth experiencing. Weigh the possibilities of change before rushing to leave my dear.
Don’t listen to these stupid advice. Mark my word he will never change actually he’s the one typing .we know these type of men. Run n never look behind
I think there is a reason why you continued staying ata kama nlikua mnafight. Maybe ata wewe ndo ulisababisha to.e zingine. We should listen both sides pia. But meanwhile let him seek help and assure you amebadilika before umurudie. You never know
A man from kakamega killed my sister he used to beat her until one day akamkanyangia chini hadi akafa.he is now in jail serving life sentence. this one is a killer my sister run
A dog will always remain to be a dog whether it barks or not
Maybe one last chance inaeza kuwa worth a shot. Every relationship has it’s own problems. Maybe anajililia coz he is indeed sorry
Sorry dear siwezi kubali mtu yesterday anichape apart from my parents ! Move on
Jesus eti boyfriend?punishment inamgoja. pole just move one
Falling for what death or his trap? please fall for yourself first
I have this ka feeling also that he is the one who is typing hizi zote za forgiveness
Sorry sis , I’m happy that you left him. you did well. he’s just pretending let him cry a river there’s no love here
Believe me or not he’s just using you,run he doesn’t love you I went through most the same i lost my one eye but now I’m happy my family loves me and imagine he got married that same year
let him cry a river ,he’s just pretending. he will never change because he doesn’t love you trust me there’s something he’s getting from you open your eyes
Sometimes people change and become even better than you ever thought. You hard a long relationship with your guy which is rare, talk to him, let him seek help and maybe give him a chance. Don’t rush to make hasty decisions
OMG! My twin , wangu alinivunja mguu na two ribs nikatolewa but now I’m a happy girl happily married to a loving hubby who cares about me .move on wachana na huyu killer
Did you say he beats you up every time you argue? You are a fool . how could you allow someone who doesn’t care about your feelings to beat you even once .move on ! many nice men are out here .
Watu kama hawa nawajua I was once a victim run for your dear life before its too late
Sorry dear just leave he doesn’t love you
just move on baby girl
Next time he’ll kill you .he doesn’t love you
RUN girl and do not look back . Love is never pain. Let him cry ataacha tu. Meanwhile you are going to be happy hata hautaamini. There are better men out there. Dont be dumb.
Run for your life honey
Forgive and forget him completely dear
I hope you are treated I wish I am one of your PARENTS! this one belongs TO JAIL
Sad,you know what someone somewhere will love and care for you. This one is a devil himself
Nothing like love here only hatred … move on baby I hope you repoted and he is now rotting in jail
Move on. He will never change
The longer you stay the more you hurt yourself. Consider getting our of it.
Get back to him and die
Trust me he’ll never change.
Don’t go back to that toxic s**t.
Just move on and live your life to the fullest
Never ever go back. Next time he will kill you or send you to hospital
You need to fall for yourself first. Ask yourself do you deserve beatings. Jipende mamaa
Thanks all for your answers . You made me stronger and I went ahead and left him. God bless you
He won’t change….leave him.
He be good with you for a couple of weeks but after it, he will start this bullshit again.
Mark my words.
Run gal he has no right to beat you !report this matter to the police
Go and don’t look back.just ask yourself do you deserve beatings…. he is a beast
vitu zingine nikisoma kichwa inauma. Ebu love yourself first. This one doesn’t love you
Crocodile tears.he won’t change love yourself kwanza
Go back to him and you’ll be writing this in heaven. How on earth
Wah! Why do you hate yourself so much hadi umekubali mtu akuchapange ?he’s a demon run gal
This is your life at stake, its not like life will end if you are not with him, ruuuun and don’t look back